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August 19, 2016 at 2:46 pm #112872
Mefisto
ParticipantForgot to add that this job also robbed me off My health. I dont have rnough energy to do exercises no more and i feel much worse.
August 19, 2016 at 3:22 pm #112874Anonymous
InactiveOh. Cmon you’re worth more than that.
Seriously. . How bad it could be?
Is it the only one available job in the world?
Complaining about your own choice should switch the red light on.
Do you really don’t. Like yourself so much so put you in the place where you’re appreciated, tired , cut off from your life because of what – money? Money doesn’t buy your happiness, they just a tool to have a life on acceptable level. Find a job where can you get enough money to pay your bills and have some spare for treating yourself..
No one deserves to be treated like a s***.Xxx
August 19, 2016 at 8:17 pm #112883Anonymous
GuestDear Mefisto:
Please tell your boss you need to not be yelled at, that you really need her to stop yelling at you.
Then do your best at it since you can’t quit. If you get fired, in spite of your best efforts, then you will be free of all the negatives of this job.
But re-read your previous thread: “I hate my job” about your job before this one. You.. well, you hated that job.
Your sense of humor is too good to come out of a “. Dead inside soulless adult”- you are very much alive and lively, so tell her to no longer yell at you, a must! And do your best.
anita
August 20, 2016 at 5:53 am #112888Inky
ParticipantHi Mefisto,
I agree. Tell your boss not to embarrass you in front of others. He will be shocked. What people don’t tell you is it’s a pain in the azz to fire, hire, and train a new person. That’s three weeks of someone not doing your job ~ and not doing it as well as you.
In one of my jobs after being publically chewed out, I waited until the boss was in a meeting with a new client. I knocked on the door, opened it and whispered very loudly, “Your credit card didn’t go through!” I was never embarrassed that way again. And again, because it was too much of a pain to replace me (no matter how “bad” I was), I wasn’t fired, either.
I quit, though.
Make it an open secret that you are actively looking for another job. You may be surprised at the influx of energy you get after work hours when you know that it’s only temporary.
Good Luck!
Inky
August 21, 2016 at 6:57 pm #112953Rohail Bukhari
ParticipantHi @mefisto,
Regarding your boss, one thing I will suggest is to try to talk to him privately and tell him respectfully that you dont like it when you criticize and embarrass him in front of others. If you are unable to do that, an alternate thing I would do is look at your situation objectively. You are currently observing your current reality and feeling terrible about it. What that means is that you are focussing on those things that cause you to feel pain. Look at your current situation objectively and understand that it is a reflection of your relationship with yourself. If your boss is criticizing you, you can objectively see that he his being negative, but when you find yourself feeling negative because of it, that is a reflection of your own attitude towards yourself. Try to change your own relationship with yourself, by loving yourself more and being kind and patient towards yourself, and do your best to at least not label THE REALITY of what your boss is doing to you as negative, while still acknowledging that he himself is being negative. Do your best. Dont condemn yourself if you cant do it at first. Learn to calmly control (not suppress) your emotions by seeing your reality as “just is” and neutral with no meaning, because it actually doesn’t have any positive nor negative meaning. From that point, see the positive in it, because it is there and then take positive action. Hope things get better for you!-Rohail Bukhari from hablufatblogs.com
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August 23, 2016 at 4:49 am #113053Meunus
ParticipantDear Mefisto,
I can understand what you going through, coz I have been going through lot of shit stuff in life too. I have been fighting with myself for past 8 years now. And trust me I am loosing it all. But I know one thing, that some day it will turn around and when it will I will be better than even I ever wished for. Recently I started my own blog where I just write about anything I feel like just to get relax. One thing you must try harder is be social and don’t push your friends and well wishers out of your life. And sooner or later you will find things at right places.
All the best and try to be happy coz without your own help no one else can do anything for you.
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