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  • August 13, 2024 at 4:07 pm #436165
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Laven:

    Thank you for choosing to share about your life here once again. I think that you have a literary talent: you write so clearly and intelligently. The sentence that touched me most is this: “All my life I’ve been wanting people to genuinely include me, accept, want, and love me..“.

    anita

    August 14, 2024 at 5:13 am #436175
    Anonymous
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    Hi Laven

    It is good to hear from you again despite the circumstances. I was thinking about you and wondering how you’re doing recently.

    Your empathy for the foster parent you care for is wonderful. I can tell that you put a lot of effort and care into taking care of her. I’m sorry for the difficulties that you both endure.

    I have concerns for you, about what happens when she passes. I don’t know if you’ve thought about what might happen next? It might be a good idea to plan for that.

    It is encouraging to hear that despite the difficulties with that man, you are very aware of the kind of person that he is now. I’m glad that you stood up to him and didn’t let yourself be bullied and that you are staying strong and not getting back in contact or helping him out financially.

    It might not feel like it, but you are a pretty amazing person Laven!

    Maybe the pity is not for you, but it is for the situation with your foster parent?

    It sounds like you’ve had a pretty rough day. I wouldn’t worry or blame yourself for the junk food.

    Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏

    August 17, 2024 at 4:37 pm #436321
    Tommy
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    When my mom was in the hospital with a tube stuck down her throat, I could see the discomfort she was in. Unable to breath and unable to talk or communicate her discomfort…. While talking with the social worker about her condition, my mom passes away. A month later, my father has a stroke, bleeding into the brain. He becomes disabled. Lost of bodily functions. … He passes away a week after I last visited him. I loved my parents but after all this time spent visiting hospitals and nursing homes and everything, the whole thing made me numb. The funerals were without a tear. It is a sign of time moving on. With it, there is no concern of people, places, love, or anything. Time just moves on.

    I am sorry for your tough situation. You have to be a strong person to keep moving forward. Forgive but do not forget. Hope you have a decent life and find what you wish for.

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