Hi guys,

So my asexual girlfriend (20) left me (20) three months ago because I was immature and she felt that I hurt/disrespected her feelings deeply (I was very wrong to have blamed her on some of our problems for which I should’ve taken responsibility). I apologized but she was visibly angry and wouldn’t give me another chance. I know she loved and trusted me a lot but probably felt too emotionally hurt to be with me anymore. So I didn’t beg or plead like crazy but simply accepted that we needed some time apart. Since then, I have been working on myself to become a better person (eg. working out, going to counselling, travelling, etc) and tried my best to move on (though I often struggled and felt occasionally sad without her). I hadn’t texted her at all except wishing her happy birthday (on Whatsapp), which she replied with a thank you. I started posting pictures on social media since two weeks ago and two days ago (a month after her birthday) I tried to call her on Whatsapp to see how she is doing and if she feels well enough to hang out with me as a normal friend (we were very good friends before). Then I realized she had blocked me out of the blue. I checked my facebook and found out that she had partially blocked me there too. I was so shocked and didn’t know what was happening. (I don’t think she’s found someone new because she never trusts people easily and doesn’t mess around with people a lot. She is introverted by nature.) I am very confused and at the same time worried about her emotional well-being. (She hasn’t updated her Instagram ever since our breakup.)

I have a feeling that she is still very hurt from our relationship. I have learned from my mistakes and become a better man as a result. I find myself do love her still and want to get back with her but I value her happiness more than anything and I want to find a way to help her. Should I do something or simply let her be and leave her alone?

Thanks!