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  • November 21, 2025 at 10:35 am #452127
    anita
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    Dear Going Through Life:

    Rishikesh, the Yoga 🧘 Capital of the World- how exciting! I’d love to see the photos!

    Anita

    November 21, 2025 at 12:59 pm #452128
    GoingThroughLife
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    You got it dear Anita.

    November 21, 2025 at 2:13 pm #452129
    anita
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    🙂

    November 23, 2025 at 9:16 am #452156
    GoingThroughLife
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    Dear Anita

    I hope your weekend was spent well. I’m writing this while waiting for my bus to go back home.

    The trip was very eventful, I met a man, younger than me at late night while crossing a bridge, we befriended each other and spent the trip together. I drove a bike, a royal enfield , through the mountains which was a dream of mine. I’m happy it got done. Maybe universes didn’t want me to spend the solo trip alone. There were nackdraws too, but that’s part of the solo trip I guess.

    I prayed for everyone during the pooja, for all my friend too. Hope you get the blessings. Tomorrow I’ll be back to my life. Vacation is officially over. Sad but that’s life.

    Hoping to hear from you soon friend.

    Goingthroughlife

    November 23, 2025 at 10:01 am #452165
    anita
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    Dear Going Through Life:

    You prayed for me too during the pooja??? I am honored, thank you!

    I was thinking of you earlier today, before you posted. Glad you had company. Sounds like a meaningful, solo and not solo trip!

    Anita

    November 23, 2025 at 10:36 am #452168
    GoingThroughLife
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    Dear Anita

    Glad to hear that, thank you for thinking of me.

    Definitely it was an experience of its own, sorry I cannot share picture here due to the limitations of this site.

    Goingthroughlife

    November 23, 2025 at 10:48 am #452170
    anita
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    No worries, dear Going Through Life, photos are quite googable, although it would have been special to see exactly what you saw.

    🙏 Anita

    November 23, 2025 at 4:10 pm #452176
    GoingThroughLife
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    Thank you for understanding dear Anita. I’m finally back home.

    Goingthroughlife

    November 23, 2025 at 5:41 pm #452177
    anita
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    You are welcome, Going Through Life. I am glad you are finally back home 🏠

    .. Going through life along with you 🙂, Anita

    November 24, 2025 at 8:03 am #452188
    GoingThroughLife
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    Dear Anita

    I hope you had a good day. I did not, I fell on my trip and injured my shoulder, it pained a lot the whole day and doctor has asked me to get a scan, I haven’t told my parents yet as they will be very angry.

    I also cried today remembering SS and how she gave up and left. I’m not in college and I can’t easily attract a girl, and to be true Anita I don’t want to attract any girl like SS again. I got hurt a lot. What would you have done in my shoes dear friend. Life and God are being cruel to me at the moment.

    Hoping to hear from you soon

    November 24, 2025 at 8:24 am #452189
    anita
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    Dear Going Through Life:

    I am sorry you fell and hurt your shoulder! I hope that the pain is because of bruising alone and that the scan reveals no injury beyond the bruising. When will you be having the scan.. and why would your parents be very angry?

    Yesterday, as I read your posts about feeling good during the trip and going back home, the thought occurred to me that your mood will change when you get home because the feeling good was about leaving home and going on an adventure and.. what goes up, must come down, as the saying goes.

    “What would you have done in my shoes dear friend. Life and God are being cruel to me at the moment.”-

    First thing, don’t be cruel to GTL, especially when life is being cruel to you. Be the opposite, be kind to yourself. If your thoughts are being cruel to you, change them. How’s that for a start?

    🤍 Anita

    November 24, 2025 at 8:59 am #452190
    GoingThroughLife
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    Dear Anita

    Thank you for your concern, I appreciate you. I hope so too that the scan does not reveal something serious. My parents would be angry because this happened to me during a solo trip and that I can’t take care of myself, i don’t want to feel like a burden on them, they already work too hard. Although I did some house chores ffor my mum in pain, I think my pain tolerance has gone up, I’m happy for that.

    You’re right, I think the change of environment was much needed, I’ll push through this too.

    Thank you for reminding me dear Anita, that I can be at least kind to myself. You’re absolutely right.

    I hope you will have a good day today.

    GoingThroughLife

    November 24, 2025 at 9:27 am #452192
    anita
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    Dear Going Through Life:

    I think that it’s admirable that you did some house chores even though you were in pain and that you noticed something positive in all of this: that your pain tolerance has gone up up.

    I also hope that the fact that you were able to do house chores mean that the injury was not more than bruising that will get better with time.

    I read that for bruising, the following in-home care helps: Ice Therapy- applying a cold pack or wrapped ice to the bruise for 10–20 minutes at a time, several times a day during the first 48 hours. This reduces pain and swelling,

    Compression- lightly wrapping the area with an elastic bandage if swelling is present, but not making it too tight,

    As well as Resting. (No more house chores for a while..?)

    Thank you for your appreciation, GTL, I appreciate you as well 🙏

    And please let me know how your shoulder is doing and what a medical professional says about it after a scan..?

    🤍 Anita

    November 24, 2025 at 9:29 am #452193
    anita
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    * I meant “gone up” (just one up 🙂)

    November 25, 2025 at 10:43 am #452213
    GoingThroughLife
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    Dear Anita

    Thank you, yes I had no choice but to do them and I did make a promise to myself that I’ll become better as mentioned in previous posts, so I had to. Swelling is less due to anti inflammation medicine but I need to get a scan tomorrow for prope guidance and healing, couldn’t get it done today.

    Thank you for your concern friend, makes me feel seen and I appreciate it. Yes doctor asked me to apply nothing till I get my scan done, but thank you for guiding me for this cold therapy process, maybe it will help somewhere down the line.

    I hope you have a good day ahead, must be early morning there in US. Have a good breakfast.

    GoingThroughLife

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