Dear Anita

Thank you for your kind words. I trust what you say and guide. I just need to believe it more.

Hoping to hear more from you friend

GoingThroughLife

Dear Anita,

What all is there to experience friend if you have to go through it alone without a partner? I feel scared of not having a partner I like
I know there is much more to experience, it makes me feel scared and excited, of what lies ahead.
How do you think of what can be friend? To think you also deserve happiness for being yourself even if have your down moments.
I guess i am learning on how to handle conflicts and being alone, i have grown very dependant on my friends, I am grateful i have a good friend circle, including you dear Anita.
Yes, you are making sense friend.

What i have also realised that i need to control my feeling of lust, some people are able to find a partner to fulfill it like SS did, as i dont have a choice, i should learn how to control it or better be okay to live with that feeling.

Hoping to hear from you friend and about your day.

Your friend
Goingthroughlife

Dear Anita

I’m glad to hear you are having nice sunny day today, I hope you enjoy it.

Yes, very true, I met with one of my childhood friend yesterday night and he listened to me peacefully and gave me some advice too.

The country I live in, here online dating is very hard. Women my age in online dating prefer going for superficial things like looks more without digging deeper. Real life interactions happens mostly through mutuals. I have installed some applications, talking to a few, let’s see. I’m not hoping or expecting anything. I met SS through a mutual friend.

Hoping to hear from you soon friend

Goingthroughlife

Dear Anita

Yeah, you’re right. Well that’s what SS said to me, and maybe yes most women have that intention too, still dating here is very hard due to the cons of modern dating. No one wants to put in the hard work or except something less.

Goingthroughlife

Dear Anita

I don’t know to be true. Dating here is mostly through mutuals, or in college/school setup. Dating apps may work but that needs effort from both sides. One may try to join hobby clubs but that requires significant time investment. Arrange marriages are still a big thing, and that has really ruined modern dating also.

Hoping to hear more about your wonderful day today friend.

GoingThroughLife

Dear Anita

Good morning to you, haha it does seem quite unique, it’s fun I’m talking to someone so far away but still so close.

Thank you for your contribution to the forums each and every day friend.

Yes, I have taken steps, I have made some new friends, I’m planning to ask my friends to set me up with someone not now but sometimes later, I have made a profile on a dating app and I’m actively trying. I still pray to god and I still take action for whatever I pray for, things won’t just fall into my lap.

Hoping to hear about your evening there friend.

GoingThroughLife

Dear Anita

Thank you. Yes, winters are quite tough but interesting. I have trying to write poetry and always trying to find some inspiration and some good vocabulary in Urdu. Winters feel like the season of poetry.

Hoping to listen more from you.

GoingThroughLife

Dear Anita

I hope you’re well. I’m glad to hear that, I’ll definitely share with you. I’m writing this while in a bus travelling to Rishikesh for my first ever solo trip. SS and me planned to go here, but this place has been calling me for some time, so I thought why not solo.

If I can I’ll share photos of that place with you, as much as I have got to know you, i know you’ll love it.

Hoping to hear from you soon friend.

Goingthroughlife