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    Inky
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    Hi rogue,

    I think she senses your love and “neediness”. When someone really, really wants something it can become a burden for the other person. What I would do is cool way off. Maybe don’t text her or call her until she contacts you. This may take a while. You might feel anxious with the waiting. But if the friendship is real, I bet she will contact you. Then maybe contact her every month and a half. A “Hey, how are you” to a long talk on the phone. I find that to be a non threatening amount of time. This is not a game, this is so she feels no pressure.

    The other thing is, if this other girl is her first relationship, there is a good chance it won’t be her last. Maybe visit her (no pressure!) next year and see where she is.

    Best,

    Inky

    #69089
    Kat
    Participant

    Aw thanks Inky, that’s really helpful advice and I’m quite confident you know where you’re coming from.
    I agree, I’m sure I’m a highly sensitive person so the emotions thing (for example, controlling said ‘neediness’) is pretty tough.

    I’ll try it out!
    Thanks again, have a great day!
    -Rogue
    🙂

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