Hi Krista,

When people break up, they should STAY broken up for at least a year.

Solution: Take all his stuff out of your place and dump them at wherever he’s staying. That includes things like his toothbrush, etc. Anything. Everything!

YES, to answer your question, YES, those Things are calling cards so he has an excuse to come back.

Then tell him you honestly don’t want to see him for a year. That he has to get over this issue, that you are not a toy to be cast aside and picked back up again. He will probably agree, first because you will be adamant, but secondly out of pride.

When he does contact you (less than a year later because it’s all about him *sarcasm*) you will tell him that you are seeing other people (you will be).

Then maybe, just maybe, one day, you might have a chance together (in, say, the 2020’s)

Best,

Inky