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  • September 23, 2021 at 12:36 pm #386633
    Anonymous
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    Dear Lin:

    I hope that your anxiety lessens and that you will soon be closer to the “bubbly, confident, independent and social Lin” than to the anxious Lin.

    You mentioned “his recent lack of affection” and his depression (“He suffers from depression”): depressed people, when feeling depressed, are not affectionate. So yes, it may be the reason why he is less affectionate with you.

    Also, your anxious behavior affects him, making him feel more anxious himself, and the result: he feels less affection. (Can you feel very anxious and affectionate at the same time?)

    It was very nice of him.. a loving act, to have made dinner for you, the laundry and all that when you were at work, wasn’t it?

    anita

    September 25, 2021 at 1:57 am #386705
    Tee
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    Dear Lin,

    He suffers from depression but I don’t know if this might be the reason why he is being so distant

    Like anita said, his lack of affection can be caused by his own mental health issues, and might have nothing to do with you.

    When he met me I was the bubbly, confident, independent and social Lin. … I also told him recently that I was insecure about the size of my breast and I feel he doesn’t like that I don’t feel sexy with them.

    How have you felt about the size of your breasts before you met him? Were you confident about it? Do you think you might be seeking his reassurance that your breasts are fine, and when he doesn’t give it to you, you get insecure?

     

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