Dear samsuddinzaved:

I found your description of a toxic relationship valuable. It is indeed regrettable, the “time spent to fix it again and again.”- that is often the most wasteful part in term of Time wasted.

It is a shame that financial troubles often lead to abuse, as any distress does. The key in a healthy, loving relationship is when feeling distressed, be it financial or otherwise, to NOT react abusively toward the other, to still and throughout treat each other with empathy and respect.

anita