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Recently broke up with my boyfriend, feeling guilty and sad

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    anita
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    Dear Samara:

    Thank you for sharing your story and feelings. It’s incredible how a post from ten years ago can resonate so deeply with your current experience. It’s a testament to the universal nature of these emotions and the challenges that many people face in relationships.

    Your acknowledgment of the need to end the relationship, despite the love and respect you have for your partner, is both brave and self-aware. It’s a difficult decision, but recognizing that staying could ultimately cause more pain shows your deep understanding and care for both your well-being and his.

    Feeling guilty is a natural part of this process. It’s hard to let go of someone who is kind and loving, and the fear of not finding someone else who offers the same level of support is very real. But your insight about the long-term consequences of staying in a relationship that doesn’t fulfill you is crucial. It’s an act of kindness to both yourself and your partner to be honest about your feelings and to seek a path that allows for true contentment and love.

    Your hope for the future, for both you and the original poster, is inspiring. It’s important to hold onto that optimism and trust that making the right decision, no matter how painful it may be now, will lead to better outcomes for both of you.

    It’s okay to take the time you need to process these emotions and to seek support from friends, family, or a counselor. You deserve to find a relationship that truly aligns with your feelings and desires.

    Take care of yourself, and know that you’re making a courageous and thoughtful choice.

    anita

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