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  • October 15, 2014 at 5:05 am #66303
    Inky
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    Have you met the co-worker? Would you be jealous of any co-worker? Do you have prophetic dreams? Let your intuition be your guide.

    I don’t think you’re overreacting, though some may disagree.

    When my DH was hiring secretaries I said, “She better be a grandma.” His secretary is over 60 years old! LOL! *Could* something happen? Of course! She’s a very good looking 60! So you see, there are no guarantees. LOL

    If you trust him, and if you don’t get any weird vibe from her, it should be OK.

    October 15, 2014 at 6:01 am #66304
    Sophia
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    Hi Chantal,

    If he went on a date with another girl, that means it is not a monogamous relationship for him. Since he is open with you about it maybe you should ask yourself if you are in the same page with him. If you are monogamous to him and you expect the same from him you should talk about this with him and try to find a solution to avoid misunderstanding and your heart broken.
    You can casually ask him if he is ok if you are the one who went out with another man. If he says he is ok with that, then it sounds like he is not making any serious commitment with you, at least you have an honest answer on how he perceive the relationship with you. If he says he does not want you to go out with another man then you can ask why he is being unfair by doing a thing to you that he wouldn’t want you to do to him.
    Don’t compromise with something that hurts you. not worth it. Unless you can adjust with his lifestyle and still be happy.
    And no, you are not over reacting, you just need to know how he feels about the relationship and decide whether you can live with it.

    October 15, 2014 at 8:52 am #66308
    Chantal
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    Hello Inky,

    I haven’t met his coworker, he just started a new job. Since, we live far, I don’t get any opportunities to see him during the week.

    He said that this coworker has kids and married.

    October 15, 2014 at 8:56 am #66309
    Chantal
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    Hello Chantal,

    He said that he doesn’t consider it as a date. He just thinks its a lunch with a co-worker nothing more. He feels that he doesn’t need to tell me because it doesn’t mean anything to him.

    I asked him if I were to go out with a male co-worker if that will be ok. He said yes, because he trusts me. So I feel that the issue is really on my part because I get insecure and jealous.

    October 15, 2014 at 9:15 am #66310
    Chantal
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    Oops the message is for Julia LOL

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