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August 14, 2014 at 4:29 pm #63391
Zach
ParticipantHi Jonny,
Coming from someone who is also a Metallica fan, you should feel no shame about that. A lot of people scrutinize heavy metal, but mainly because they look at those of us who listen to it as satanic and aggressive. They don’t see the real person usually. I was a lot like you were in high school, very wrapped up into music and guitar. I had a small circle of friends, and I got made fun of not because I liked heavy metal, but because I was quiet and apparently that made me seem weird or strange to others. Anyone who judges you and makes fun of you that much because a band you like should really not matter to you at all. Their opinion is crap and they are so shallow im sure that type of person made fun of almost everyone they came across to feel better about their own issues. Its easier said than done, but its a lot easier for you as a person to not let anything they said affect you which gives you the power if you try to move past it eventually. Also never be ashamed for doing something that you like to do such as playing guitar, writing lyrics and playing video games. Happiness can come from within. Ive learned to stop externalizing my happiness and the world is a much better place for me. Do things for yourself because YOU want to do them, not because what other people might think or how you will be judged. It takes a while, and its still a long process for me, but I promise if you focus less on where you have been and focus more on the present and where you want to be things will get better. It just takes time.
Hope this helps a bit,
Zach
August 15, 2014 at 6:33 am #63429Inky
ParticipantHi
I’ve always been an “outlier” for this disorders ~ I’d have some symptoms, but not enough to get diagnosed with anything. But, there was enough ADD stuff going on while growing up that I know exactly what you mean ~ I’ve been there. Reading, drawing, if they had video games back then I’d totally be a Geek Girl. Kept to myself, three friends tops.
Say to yourself that you forgive anyone who ever did you harm if they were under the age of 18. Go look at HS kids IRL. Don’t they look like babies now?? Unformed. Half Baked. They know not what they do.
Comparison ~ when you’re young you brag about things you’ve done. When you’re old you talk about your family and events that happened. Who is wiser, the young do-er or the old appreciate-er?
You don’t know how your dad feels. Maybe he thinks you’re not proud of him, who knows?? Once you are older than your dad was when you were born you will see him as a mere person.
I freaking love Games. But I have a ritual ~ my apps I only play when I’m in bed about to go to sleep or before I get up. My computer games I only play before everyone is out the door. You can use other things in ritual too, for values and vices. It helps to do things at a certain time of day/week/month/year.
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