sorry for writing after two month ,i have read your comments and dint contacted him and he texted me”  Hi “one time  and i dint reply after that he never texted me .from last two months even his gf wasnt in that city for about 20 days .on the other hand i could see his whatsapp status it was sad  and like he was missing me and his profile pic was the same pic which i took of him(that wasnt too good)

meanwhile i was confused too that why he dint contacted me because i was in commited relationship with him etc and if he is posting such status like he is missing me etc ..it was too tough days for me .but i wanted the reason that why he did like this ?and the reason y he dint come back when i walked away .

after 45 days of silence it was his BDAY and i wished him .he thanked me .and then no conversation ..

one of my mutual friend asked him the reason of breakup before 3 days .and his reply was that

1-  i was in contact with my EX and my ex texted him and asked him indirectly that when is he going to meet me in my country?? even though i m nt in contact with my ex .and i dnt knw how nd why has my ex texxted him like this ?as no one knew about relationship even not my ex. and if my ex texted him like this y didnt my bf discussd wd me nd startd ignoruing me .

2- he said he doesnt like that i share my things to some of his friends . here i am wrong but he never told me  that he mind such thing i never ever knew this he was always okey about these things ..i was so suprised with his this reason .

3-he said i dont try to understand him and ask him to call me or talk to me  eveytime etc.here i am again very suprised because i never did this i always respected his privacy his time his job time  .apart from last week of my walking away i complained him that u dont talk or text or call me …

4-once he said me that he ll send his parents for proposal then i should convince my family and i told him that u should convince my family etc and started kidding .thus he thinks i am not serious about him etc whatsoever .

and that mutual friend told him to contact me directly and tell me reasons as i wanted to know . nd he replied him he will call me in  somedays .but my ex doesnt know that that mutual friend told me the reasons .he still thnks i dont knw the reason .

so yestrday i texted him on his mobile no that just let me know when u have time so that i can calll you i dint get any reply .i thought may b my message wasnt deliverd

so  today was my birthday nd i got birthday TEXT msg from him .i replied him on Whatsapp to be sure that my msg is deliverd to him .i replied thank you and again i wrote that when u get free just let me know i ll call u or jst call me …

he seen my text in 5 mints but he dint respond me yet after 11 hours ..

i want to add here today he went for picnic with his friend .may be he was busy …

and he told that mutual friend that he dont wana live with that another  gf .when he discussd about me ..

i dont know where life is going and what to do ?

and why he is doing such behaviour ,

what does it mean??what should i do now ?

thank you .

Thank.you so much for your precious time.

Yes i m doing overthinking because i was too serious about him.and us.and i overthink in every little information i get because i feel like he loves me thus he put such status or songs he shares that remind him.of me. But i dont know reality . What his motive behind it..

Even after two months my heart ache and every single day i was finding reason tht where i went wrong .and waiting for his response or a single.text .may be i dint do much self improvement and dint move on because i was unsure if we really broke up or whaat ? Or may b he wants me .. i hope you are understanding my feelings

And his all reasons which he gave made no sense to me . Sometime i feel like to write a letter to send him about his reasons or whatever he did . But that mutual friend gave me promise never to discuss that.reasons to.him….

I used to.love him.because i thought he understands me.like no.body else and he never judge me or my past ..i was too open and honest to him that i even told him tht i am not virgin nd my Ex emotional forcd me once to.do Sex . I was too surprised that he told that mutual friend which is.his best friend about my past forced Sex to him .

And he said he never judge me about my past .we were more like best friends according to me thn a lover ) but actually he was judging me .   .

I mean i never dare to.share with anyone else apart frm him ( in our culture its not acceptable ,its like shame when a unmarried girl isnt virgin ) .

And i never judged him nor his past neither jis present as he was living with gf .of course thy must have physical and every kinda contact i never asked if he does Sex or etc i.always understood him.gave him.pravicy..and even extra ordinary honest . May b my honesty was the most foolish act …as that mutual friend said,that u dint need to tell everything truth about yourself.and he said he thinks i m.fool.to be that.much Honest .

And may be he is right . But that was my past and when someone love another thy dont.judge them or even their past .

Regards

Dear Claire. U r right he is ok with this . Or may b he is just playing . Can a person who loves sombdy can be Ok without communication . And even not calling or texting after she walks away ?

I.texted yesterday him to let me know when he is free so.that i call him or he can call me its 2nd day neither he replied nor he called.