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  • August 19, 2013 at 11:09 pm #40815
    Fe Martin
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    when someone loves you so much in a long distance relationship, do you think loneliness is an excuse for cheating? he doesnt really love her but he just want to fill in the loneliness. is this forgivable?

    August 20, 2013 at 6:14 am #40819
    Matt
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    Fe,

    Forgiveness is always important, because it is what allows the heart to heal. From her side, accepting the truth of it will help her heart determine whether or not it will open to him again, trust him again.

    Its like a jury that is asked to consider “temporary insanity” for a crime. The consideration has to be deeply circumstantial, and it is between her and her heart. There is no right or wrong of it… there is only action and reaction. Is he worth it? Everyone makes mistakes, but not everyone repents for them, and not all apologies are for the right reasons. I don’t believe he should get a scarlet C he has to wear from now on. If his repentance is genuine, if he puts noble effort behind healing whatever created the action, and of course if she can accept the mistake, then maybe the intimacy will blossom stronger because of it. That’s a lot of ifs, though.

    With warmth,
    Matt

    August 20, 2013 at 6:02 pm #40862
    Samantha The Who
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    Hello i need your help. I’m a person who is in a long distant relationship with my partner however that person is far and there’s basically a continent between us. We’re young adults and we have been together for a year and a half now and the thing is we recently confirmed our feelings however since we started this love thing its been really really nice. Skype is our main medium and we send letters to each other and text and sms and even call each other’s phone. Basically our communication level is on the highest it could be since we realize that in most long distant relationship they always sink due to communication. So we made a pact to not let ours fall out because of that but now its like…….we’ve gotten bored of each other. We have nothing to entertain ourselves with and we have nothing to do. Here are a few things we do so far

    rp
    sex games
    long conversations
    Sending pakages of things we drew or created or own as a sign of each others love.

    I want you help i don’t want us to fall apart although we might be bored of each other it doesn’t mean that we don’t still love one another

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