Dear Ms Independent:

Silence is fine, and reading from you is better: to read that you are still here, and that your boy is healthy and happy!

anita

Dear Ms Independent:

You wrote in your first post today: “Sometimes I reach out to vent (big mistake)“- the message you sent Dee was factual and very short, and therefore, it doesn’t qualify as a venting message. I suppose it is a mistake to look for empathy where- unfortunately- there is none for you to have.

In that first post of the day, you asked: “Why do people think they have to protect their energy from me?“- it is unfortunate that the one who expressed negative, unempathetic energy is Dee, the one you reached out for empathy.

Instead of expressing empathy for you, she accused you of…  misusing her (“some people aren’t looking for friends they are looking for therapist“), as if empathy and understanding do not belong in the context of friendship.

And she disrespected you by not answering your message directly, and by saying that you are… an “ass people”, is that what she said?

anita

Dear Ms Independent:

It is not at all true that you are “not at all important“- you are as important as anyone, and not less important than any person in the whole world. You are not rich or politically powerful- but that doesn’t make you any less valuable or important than any one of the people in this world!

In your post before last, you asked: “Can you give me an example of negative and dangerous energy?“- yes, Dee’s indirect messaging to you, accusing you of what you are not guilty of, and referring to you as a nobody-ass-people is an example of negative and dangerous energy!

I wish she never did what she did, it makes me sad to think that she hurt the precious Hero I know… the Independent woman and mother (you) who deserve respect (not disrespectful, hurtful energy)!

anita

Dear Ms Independent:

It reminds me of what is known as the Golden Rule, in its biblical (Matthew 7:12) expression, it says: “In everything, treat others as you would want them to treat you”.

For what reasons/ in what instances did you block and ignore people without an explanation?

anita

Dear Ms Independent:

It is a good thing then, that you blocked the two- better if you explained to them why you were blocking them, before you did. It’s a very good thing to end contact with people who encourage you to keep habits that harm you (and your kid), so congratulations for doing that!

anita

Dear s Independent: I will reply Thurs morning, good night to you!

anita