BTW just an update to Anita…she ended the friendship over a TEXT message. I reached out to her and she was ignoring me, had a work buddy interviene because I was worried about her and she said my “ok then” text was a little snotty (she was ignoring me though) and sent a long text telling me she can’t give me what I want and feels bad when I feel bad over slow text, etc, that she’s working on herself and has no time for friendship with me anymore.

I was getting emotional for a while because after everything we had been through…I am STILL totally confused what just happened. But I miss the old her, not this lieing her… Pretty sure that ex of hers told her to just drop me. she changed quite a bit and not in a good way IMO. But this was only a friendship end for ME, so it was quite personal for her, she said “I can’t commit to this friendship anymore”, like you said about not able to commit talking in this thread anymore because we talked about everything. Pretty sure that means she’s never going to try another attempt down the line, what do you think? I know she hates when I “dissapear” for months at a time, she once said “no text and call me and I will text and call you” with an annoyed tone, but I do what I want because she refuses to even spend 10 seconds out of her day and send 1 text message like she did in the past or even 1 phone call.

I dunno what I even did to her and I never will…she could not even do this over the phone like an adult but a TEXT message.

Well, anyway this thread is done. Yeah I was a little obsessed, but I used to like talking on the phone with her until she changed. I wished her well and said glad she was ok from that 1 summer and this different incident I helped her in and I dunno what I did but I assume someone told you to drop me, wasn’t the first time and I said goodbye forever and blocked her. She blocked me so she wont read it anyway.

Happy Independence Day!

I’ll try. Not that upset anymore…I am pretty sure I know why this happened and it has nothing to do with what she said, she’s upset I go months not keeping in touch with her and she’s tired of me coming in and out of her life when she just wants me in it. Like I said, she’s gotten upset I go months not “keeping in touch”, but I vanish because she doesn’t do anything, she can text or call too but she never does and expects me to do it all. I CAN’T DO IT ALL!!! she once said “I message you when you dissapear” and when I said I’ll talk to you next summer one time (it would have been like 11 months) she said “if that’s what you want..i’ll be around just message me”.

Like I said, it has nothing to do with the filler fluff she posted, it’s because I don’t keep in touch anymore and that message of not wanting to hang out with her and see you in the summer was the last straw, I guess she had an emotional reaction to it and had a talk with someone on what to do and there was an agreement to let me go. She could not do it via phone because it was too painful for her so a text and block was the easiest thing to do and she can run away like she always does when a problem arises. She should have told me “I can’t be friends with you if you are always going to vanish”, instead she did nothing and this happened and I presume it was really hard for her because that 1 summer and how close we became when her and her guy split.

I lost a friend for a really dumb reason, but oh well she done for good.

Today was….emotional at work. My god! She’s blocked but maybe 1 day many many years from now if I think about her I will message her that I hope she’s doing well or I will see her walking around. Or would that be creepy?

Man this hurts…manager at my work that was tight with her told me maybe it’s not even about me, maybe she just needs to move on for a while and when she’s ready she will reach out in a few months, but I said yeah it’s most likely over now. People at my work are confused why it was a text and block and no phonecall…manager agrees with me it was because she probably could not handle a phone call due to being upset and found this way easier.