Probably not, she’s a changed woman and will probably have a new guy before I knew she left the old guy.

So how do I ask her about my problem? if we were to hang out I don’t want 1 time a year only, if it wont happen like how I want it then perhaps how it used to be and I will never accept 1 hike or coffee a year and that’s it because that shows you’re not an important person to them. I am thinking about asking how often we would do a hike or a coffee even if we meet half way.

Alright thanks, I will try it out. Maybe not once a month as she will most likely say no, but every few months and if that works out I’ll try to sometimes go once a month to test that out.

As for phoning her once a month, I call her every 2 weeks lately and she seems fine with it.  I’ll let you know over several months how this goes, if it keeps not happening I dunno what I will do.

I’m gonna message her if she wants to do a hike or something the beginning of July in an attempt to see people.

I really don’t like this social isolation BS though. Saw a woman at work i’ve not seen since pre covid and we could not hug each other…we always hug 2 or 3 times (she’s about 48 but looks much younger and takes care of her body for sure). Yes, I hug lots of women at my work co workers and customers and I can’t now and it’s killing me inside lol.

Yes I  like to hug as well.

As for her, like normal now she took forever to message me back and said sorry for late reply that she was busy with some stuff and said sounds  good for a hike after next month, I never responded back. I dunno if I should ask to bring her man…maybe she will change her tune if he knows I am not a threat to their relationship if he tags along? After I  will ask for a coffee around late August, like the last week, I will say like “You free for coffee this week?” or something.

Is this a bad sign? just found out she posted on FB a few times a few hours after I messaged her, but she messaged me the next day saying sorry for late reply had things going on (regular thing now for ignoring my texts but being active on social media) and still hangs around her neighbour doing picnics and dancing having a ball yet never making plans with me telling me she can’t commit monthly. Just wondering what your opinion is on this. You know my opinion, her guy doesn’t want me around so she’s been distancing herself.

I been having a panic attack for over an hour. I messaged her again early and again she never messaged me back, she posts on her facebook. I messaged her

Me: Let’s talk in the next few days, not up for a facetime call right nowthough so just a regular call”

Me: Hope your day goes well

6 hours later I message my old roomate and he says she’s posting on her FB

Me: Uhhhhh,,,,,,Whatever I did to you I am sorry but I guess you no longer wanna talk anymore now that you paid me back

I rode my bike past her work, she’s there but obviously if she doesn’t wanna see me anymore since all she does is ignore me I just kept on going.

I guess it’s over…WTF????she panic’d and was gonna freak out when I told her “I guess we wont be seeing eachother anymore”

Also yes I have told I am a little jealous her neighbour gets all this time with her, she didn’t say anything. I know she had a good time because she always has a good time with friends and everytime on the phone she always seems inlove with her in a best friend way saying she’s soooo positive and always tells me about new things they do.