Good morning! Yes, we are same time zone. CCT…nice acronym! If she messages me I will let you know what she says in here.

Yeah she was in a bath, surprised me because that means she was talking to me…ahem…naked 😉  I don’t do much for christmas either, first time in as long as I can remember I wont be doing christmas with the family, not heard from them at all, not even a  phone call. Just me and pops and our cat.

I’ll keep learning from her over time. She wants to start traveling.

She called me for a few minutes and said she loved it, how thoughtful I am and awesome (told her you too) and wanted to call me instead of text me. She will use 1 for home and have 1 at her work for when she has water. Chilling at home with 1 of her daughters and her ex, then noon will pick up her other daughter and bring her home, then tonight her moms and will tell her family all about the mug. Told her I will call her in a few days, she said sure. Told her I accidently ordered 2 mugs and did not know what to do with the other so gave her both and that it’s just me, dad, and the cat and that I will probably just play video games, she said that’s ok. I did text her earlier though and wished her a merry christmas and hope great spirit treats her and her family good and that I wished them all well.

Ha, nice! I’ll post again in the new year.

Have a good christmas and a happy new year and may 2019 be a great year for you.

Thanks. 🙂

Just wanted to say we talked for 35 minutes. Loved the mug and said I was  so thoughtful and I am such a nice guy, talked about where she would go if she traveled (all over the world pretty much), told me her day started off bad so asked what happened but the phone kept cutting in and out, she was tired so it was not a long call as I told her to go for her nap and we would talk in the new year sometime (probably end of Jan, wanna hang out middle of Jan), what she got for xmas, what  I got (nothing yet, we will do shopping later in Jan), she feels horrible for not getting me anything but told her I don’t need anything, her friendship is more then enough and that I don’t give presents to recieve them, I just like brightening her day and I also just give and don’t care about recieving. Also that I am just spreading the love and that the love needs to be spread around. Also forget what was said but remember her saying something about being together and getting through stuff together,  and always being there for eachother.

She REALLY loved the mug, could tell in her voice when we talked about it a few times. Told her I forgot to put some scratch and win cards in them but she said the mug was good enough, told her how it was made and by the same person who made her other mug. She’s going for a walk tomorrow, I will be helping someone move but she wants to hike with me when it’s warmer she said when I asked. Could not keep her eyes open any more so I told her to go take that nap. I was feeling like crap but I had a lot of energy in me anyway and I was really talkative compared to usual, so that was good. I guess i’ll update by the end of Jan after our next phone call and coffee hopefully, then i’ll probably disapear again until the end  of the summer and update more. I also asked her if she wants to start a new challenge, as she’s ate a lot over the holidays and has been slipping on eating healthy (as have I), so starting tomorrow I am back to my keto diet and the new year she’s going to start getting back into healthy eating again. Also wants me to come in again to get a massage and asked if I would ever do it again, I def would and told her so. Maybe in a week? she’s not getting many people as it’s the holidays and stuff, so i’ll have to help out with those tips.

Just wanted to say hope you had an amazing new years! I ended up making an account on tinder and texting girls, now I am texting a girl sorta near sorta far from me that wants to meet up, we text all night new years eve and the woman this thread is about is super happy I made a connection with another girl. Wont be calling her this month, sad she told me she hung out with a few friends none of which were me on new years eve. I booked an appointment with her for next week and the week after I will ask her for the coffee, then phone her next month. No point calling if I am going to see her 2 times this month so maybe I will call 2 times next month to make up for it. Anyway still plan on taking off but until the start of Feb now. I BADLY miss how close we used to be or at least how I felt, I will never tell her as I figure she has moved on and I feel pretty insignificant to her, like I don’t matter that much to her (not a priority). But when it’s warmer i’ll try my best to try hanging out more, maybe even walks around downtown. I really hate being an introvert and not out doing things and inviting people out, I just can’t do it. Also wish she would invite me out, but she never said she would in Oct, just that she wants me to come with her but I deleted my FB because it makes me feel worthless. Anyway message again in Feb.

I know it’s not Feb but I need an opinion on something if you’re ok with that.

I think I realized why it’s so hard to hangout with her. She’s really into hanging out with friends that know her family, which I don’t and they are all female. Think this will be a constant thing of wishing we could hangout more, she will always say she wants to aswell but we never do. Seems kinda pointless wasting time talking on the  phone and the odd text. If all we are gonna do is hangout a few times a year what’s the point in knowing eachother? my neighbours hangout with their friends often. She’s done even more events and I still never get an invite even though she told me on the phone last month she will invite me to her next one.

You have not missed much. Told her I was having a meh day last week so she said we should talk soon, so called her for 35 minutes last week, had a massage the next day and walked her to her car far away then walked home declining her offering me a ride home and I paid for massage this time as she’s getting no money right now. Saw her the next day after that at my work. Wont be having a coffee with her this week, told me we should book in advanced for next week but I doubt I will.

Should I call her up and let her know things aren’t working out the way I planned and I am just going to take off? The phone calls are not as nice as they used to be, but I also don’t feel the same way for her I used to. I just want to hang out more often and get frusterated with our lack of it, even after our conversation in October. Like she tells me what I wanna hear rather then what will happen. Mind games. Once a month is fine with me, not 1-2 times a year.

As for the tinder stuff? Don’t talk to the girl anymore, did not connect or anything and she’s too far away. But I talk to a bunch of others, which only lasts for a day or 2.