Who knows. Anyway here is the rest on Xmas and Boxing day.

Her: Omg you got me! I love it, thank you soooo much!
Her: Sunday Monday off, working the rest of the week 🙁
Her: Merry xmas!
Me: Hey, glad you liked it 🙂 I was thinking of adding honey as the final piece because the bee and the flowers but honey is an animal product so just left the mug
Her: 🙂
Me: I’m off Sunday and Tuesday. Have a happy new years too
Her: You too!! xo
Me: Sucks you’re working Friday, was going to see if you wanted to watch UFC Friday at Jay and Matts.

Now boxing day…

Me: How was your Xmas? Santa nice to you this year?
Her: Yeah “great spirit” continues to take good care of me and my family. Was such a good time. and the fun continues.
Her: Dinner with gramma today then go visit the othet side at my moms again after 🙂
Her: How was yours pat? hope great spirit showed you love aswell 🙂
Her: The mug is my favourite gift
Her: That’s why you asked how to spell it lol
Me: The great spirit? don’t know much about Buddhism, just that it seems like a cool way to live
Me: Nice, enjoy the dinner! Then enjoy your other family you will visit
Me: My family full of drama lol, lots of arguing and stuff as usual
Me: Favourite gift? Nice, happy you liked it. I wasn’t sure what to get then decided on that, something I thought you’d like. Yeah that’s why I wanted to know your name lol
Me: Alright enjoy your day 🙂 i’ll text you later. BTW the person who made the mug said it was her favourite mug she’s ever made.
Her: Haha that’s so funny about the mug 🙂
Her: Sorry about your family drama. Things have vern difficult..but they will get better!!
Her: First xmas without any arguments for us 🙂
Her: I said great spirit for fun instead of santa
Her: I think all gods are the same thing..life force energy aka “great spirit” I think that’s a native phrase..just liked it
Her: Peace
Her: Hi!
Me: Hey just got home from work
Her: Can I give your number to Katrina?
Me: Sure
Her: Cool thanks
Me: Np
Her: Have a great day!!
Me: You too, may the great spirit keep smiling on you. Lol that sounded kinda corny
Her: Thanks lol
Me: Theresa is doing good now. I remember you asked how she was doing a little while ago
Her: Good to hear xoxo

Like I said, she’s got a Buddhist family. Really hope they don’t post here…

Enjoy that snowman, make him have a nice 6 pack abs with huge arms and stick legs because he never trains legs on leg day.

Nice, now karate kick the head off!

Something been stuck in my head for a while now, I been googling it but I don’t find any of the same questions. Remember when we had a coffee and she told me she’s distancing herself as she’s helped me far too much? and I need professional help? What does that even mean? I thought you’re supposed to get support from your friends? I never talk about my problems to anyone anymore, pretty much keep it bottled up again. She says the 3 things people need in their life if they are depressed are meds, therapy and time with your friends and it’s a loooong road. She also says you’re not supposed to fight this alone, it’s too hard to go at it alone, but she says I need to do this on my own.

I dunno, it’s probably not best I start thinking again unless i’m clear headed lol.

Went for a walk in the cold, then all of a sudden my darkness got lifted and I could think clearly. Got thinking of hopefully this week seeing her at her job with a buddy from work that we are planning, thinking about next time if she wants to have a coffee once a month? and maybe go up the mountain 2 times a month as she was saying she needs to start excercising more, getting her number this week for her home, if I have extreme bipolarism, during the times we have coffee if I can ask her if she wants me to be completely honest or half honest when asking/receiving questions, if she’s still thinking about quitting to go to a vegan resturaunt and if so if she wants any company to come with her. If she gets a job at a Vegan place hopefully it will be near china town so i can make frequent visits to the float lab which is pretty much like the isolation tank video i posted with Joe Rogan a while back, it’s like meditationX10 and last time we talked at the coffee shop she thought i should try out her Yoga and maybe meditation. Last time I asked her if she wanted company when she goes somewhere was when I had dinner with her and we talked about her going to see a person to give her options for that job she was thinking of getting a career into, she just smiled and say thanks but that’s best to do on her own but maybe next time. Come to think of it…there is plenty of things I don’t ask her anymore I used to ask her and keep updated on.

I’ve kinda shifted on different stupid things now like that long yoga thing, about what her hours are, just saying hey. I used to talk about other things like her anxiety, her aches, her career she wants to get into, her niece, etc. Maybe it’s time I start shifting back into things we can talk that have value instead of using texts as a way to say whatever is on my mind.

I also got thinking why am I more comfortable with her having a dinner then I am having a coffee? coffee I just can’t think right, the dinner I kept the conversation up a majority of the time, we just talked and talked and talked with a few silences we just stared at eachother in the eyes. This depression might have made me change and it made us change…I dunno.

I also got thinking why am I bringing people over? I’ve not gone over by myself to eat, remember her wanting me to stay and have dinner that day I gave her the present she loves so much. She goes for coffee with a few of them, a few more she wants to but they never seem to get an exact date down. I want to see her, I should be making more time to see her by myself, not get others to eat at her job. If they want to catch up they can go for a coffee together…I should be making plans with just her before she’s gone or how else am I going to get a close friendship? then when she moves we will have skype coffee calls on the webcam if she wishes to continue this. My family do skype with eachother, as in my uncle and his family, and his wifes sister and her family and other people. I’m never included.

I dunno why, never thought about it until yesterday. I no longer have a clear head, back to my old self…thinking what if she ignores my text again I’ll send her Wednesday? Then another thought about my mom,why am I not good enough to have a mom or a family that cares…then I been trying my best to keep from crying at work, then thought again if she ignores my text that must mean she no longer likes me as a friend. Will she abandon me too?

As for the dinner thing…I feel better when it was a dinner, I’ll get used to coffee. Her anxiety is in her shoulders, she’s not really a shy person. If she wants something sooner she will let me know.

Screw it i’m going to text her tomorrow at 845am and ask if she’s working today, then if she is i’ll head on over for dinner by myself. Then i’ll ask her when I leave if she’s working tomorrow and come back with my work buddy.

Thanks! Sorry about your troubles, hope things get better for you soon!

Phew I got a text back. She’s working until 830, i’ll be over at 6.