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    Anonymous
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    Dear vidalevi:

    I am guessing you are a woman? According to your story it is possible this man had made a negative judgment about you by your looks alone. A guess: something to do with the way you dress, your age, the way you walk perhaps and he made assumptions about you. This may explain his dismissive and hostile behavior toward you. What do you think?

    anita

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    Inky
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    Hi vidalevi,

    Maybe he thought you were ignoring him when you’d pass by on the way to work. In our commute, we do see “regulars”. Maybe he thought you were snubbing him or didn’t like him. And now he’s taking it out on you at the bank! And sometimes, people just don’t dig each other.

    Yes, talk to his manager. I actually did that when I was a kid and the clerk was giving me a hard time (the bank machine ate my card). I was expected to come back at the end of the day (“Go shopping”) to get it. Meanwhile I had to drive up to college eight hours away. In a panic I complained, the manager snapped his fingers, three guys swept over to the machine and I got my card back in five minutes. The clerk’s face turned pale.

    What do you have to lose?

    Best,

    Inky

    • This reply was modified 8 years, 11 months ago by Inky.
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