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  • February 10, 2019 at 8:26 am #279541
    Anonymous
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    Dear Princess258:

    “and now my man wants to dump me”- you mean he wants to end his relationship with you, to break up?

    The drunken party you mentioned, that was with his .. other family, you were not present there, I assume. I see a problem where alcohol is involved and a man is close with a work wife and a “daddy’s girl” who is perhaps much younger than him and flirtatious is involved. On the other hand, it makes his work environment much more  pleasant that way, keeps it entertaining, not boring.

    anita

    February 11, 2019 at 2:34 am #279657
    Princess258
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    Yeah well he thinks my questioning of her and his intentions is out of order and yes he wants me to move out.

    I wasnt invited to this party and I wasnt told either until I bumped in to his friend who told me that my bf didn’t want to be the only guy so he invited him too.

     

     

    February 11, 2019 at 6:16 am #279673
    Princess258
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    Thank you for your response Anita.  When you mentioned him keeping the work place less boring, do you have any advice about how I should or should have dealt with this please?  Do you think it may be that I’m not sexy enough for him? His work wife used to text him at 5am after they finished work and one night she text him saying “xxxx you’re amazing! Xxxx” – would anyone else be suspicious of this?   Its been so draining that I have found it difficult to believe that none of this is either kept going or caused by him.  He told me to trust him and not care what the other girls behave like. Thanks

     

    February 11, 2019 at 7:17 am #279683
    Anonymous
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    Dear Princess258:

    Reality is that your boyfriend has been attending drunken parties with other women, parties to which you were not invited. One woman texted him: “xxxx you’re amazing! Xxxx”, another kissed his neck, and that is only what you know happened during parties and otherwise at the bar scene where he spends many hours around alcohol and women.

    I think that he doesn’t want you to rain on his parade, on the arrangement he has. You may be one of the sexiest women on earth, but lots of women look sexy during drunken parties and they think he is sexy too. When a man is after having fun above all else and has his fun, well, that is all he cares about, isn’t it?

    anita

    February 11, 2019 at 4:04 pm #279805
    Mark
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    Princess258,

    All you need to know is that this guy is dumping you.

    I hope you are not insecure because of this guy being a philandering dickwad.  Time to move on.  He has not grown up in the 12 years you have been with him.  Hopefully you have.  Time to grow up and be with those who share the same values and live a lifestyle that is in alignment with yours.

    Mark

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