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    Anyone
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    This to me seems more of a trap. Since in India there are lot of issues with in-laws staying together. And since the parents stay with the son and not a daughter. So women choose for a family where the in-laws are either working or living with another son.

    #108652
    Paper Tissues
    Participant

    1) Can such important detail about family be a typo mistake?
    To be honest, I don’t think so. Years ago, I’ve experienced dating websites and from my experience, if you really want to find that someone special, you want to be sure that the info you’d put down in words are right.
    I don’t buy the idea that his account could be hacked. Why would some change just couple of information about his profile?

    2) What would he reply? He will for sure say, it was a mistake?
    He could reply saying that it was a mistake. What I reckon is, he will reply something saying that it wasn’t him or if it was him, he’ll manage to find a way to show it was a mistake.

    3) How to know if he is lying?
    I don’t think there’s a 100% effective way to discovery if he’s lying.
    I think you should ask yourself something like, “Do I really want to start any kind of relationship with someone that I can’t trust even 10%?””

    I think it’s ok to keep talking to him, but just be aware that he could start saying things that you want to listen, but aren’t the truth.

    • This reply was modified 8 years, 9 months ago by Paper Tissues.
    #108654
    Inky
    Participant

    Hi Anyone,

    The fact that you’re asking us on Tiny Buddha what we think shows that there are, indeed, too many red flags.

    He just got divorced
    Doesn’t want anymore kids
    Was accused of cheating
    Wife disrespected in-laws (he wants you to be passive, even if abused??)
    The Typo

    I say move on to someone:

    Single
    Wants Kids
    All information checks out
    Gives you a good feeling in your gut

    Blessings,

    Inky

    #108661
    Vince
    Participant

    I think that is good advice, Inky.

    #108663
    Anonymous
    Guest

    Dear Anyone:

    The possible typo you are referring to is that his profile says “brother” when truth it is “sister”? And his mother is a housewife and not “Employed”? I didn’t understand the in-laws living with the son and not the daughter, how it applies here.

    The fact that his ex wife accused him of cheating doesn’t mean that he did. The fact that his marriage dissolved doesn’t mean he was at fault. My main concern would be why he didn’t see his daughter since Feb 2015???

    Second, is see that his parents are not abusive- that they were not abusive to the first wife and that she reacted to their abuse- and so that you will be expected to … not react to abuse coming from them.

    anita

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