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  • July 25, 2020 at 6:38 am #362685
    Anonymous
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    Dear Mango:

    Your decision to “just see what happens- if someone is showing effort to get together, then great. If not, then (not)” – reads reasonable to me.

    You wrote a sentence that stood out for me: “Even those who have hurt me over and over again, (different story) I still have so much love/ care in my heart for them”- I have a feeling that if you elaborate on this sentence/ tell a bit about that different story, I will have more to say.

    anita

    July 25, 2020 at 11:23 am #362708
    Inky
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    Hi Mango,

    It will never be the same, I’m afraid. And it shouldn’t be this hard. The pandemic just makes it worse, and the introverts get to be hermits. But it’s the extroverts who suffer! This is also so typical. After high school people just shoot off in different trajectories and seldom look back. That’s why they created high school reunions.

    I think it’s harder because it sounds like everyone is in the same area so there is really no excuse.

    My rule of thumb is after three failed attempts or cancellations give it up. Then perhaps next year throw a party, send invites, and if they come, they come.

    Best,

    Inky

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