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  • December 13, 2019 at 10:58 am #327433
    Anonymous
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    Dear Kaylon:

    Is this the same friend you shared about 2.5 years ago, in June 2017? There you shared that you bought her some gifts for her graduation party, spending more than $100, and when you had dinner together in a restaurant, she asked the waitress to  split the bill. When the bill arrived, she told the waitress that your dish was about 50 cents higher than hers, wanting the bill to be corrected so that her share is down 25 cents.

    You gave her a $100 gift and she didn’t want to pay 25 cents of your bill- is this the same woman?

    anita

    December 13, 2019 at 11:46 am #327437
    Kaylon
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    Hey anita,

     

    Yes, same girl. I think I’m done investing in this relationship. Looking back, when things not going the way she expected, she became extremely difficult and and reacting very immaturely.

    December 13, 2019 at 12:01 pm #327439
    Anonymous
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    Dear Kaylon:

    Good choice, to be “done investing in this relationship”. She’s been quite selfish and self centered for a long time, hasn’t she?

    anita

    December 14, 2019 at 9:30 am #327539
    Inky
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    Hi Kaylon,

    I would take the mother at face value. I think it really was the bathroom. If it wasn’t, you don’t need that kind of older friend.

    My daughter has Celiac. We know how hard it is. However, she would take on the responsibility of finding a restaurant onto herself. And she would eat beforehand or have gluten free food in the car and purse (as I taught her).

    Friendships get harder the farther distance away they are. There is all this pressure to get together when you’re in the area and have it go perfectly perfect. Let this one go.

    Best,

    Inky

    December 16, 2019 at 9:20 am #327965
    Kaylon
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    Thanks Inky. I appreciate your opinion.

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