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  • February 14, 2015 at 10:02 am #72751
    Jay
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    I never give advice but I’d say getting a divorce would probably a good idea to give you some closure and open yourself up to other opportunities in life..but that does not mean you should necessarily jump into another marriage with someone else right away…especially since it is clear from your question that you are not sure of the new guy’s intentions.
    Best of luck in whichever path you choose.
    Namaste.

    February 15, 2015 at 5:43 am #72787
    Inky
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    Hi kim53,

    No one is putting a gun to your head and demanding you get a divorce. This marriage arrangement seems to be working for you. But you simply must ferret out the terrifying fear. Is it money? Status? There’s no one else? You genuinely like/love your husband? I say if you don’t have a job, get one. If you have few friends, find some. If you love the routine of it all, do other things.

    This guy you’re in love with that you see once a year? My green card senses are tingling. I would sooner get citizenship to his country. Honestly. I’ve seen this happen. Don’t be like that guy who I’ve seen this happen to. I’d rather you live in your current comfortable life/routine.

    Think Hard,

    Inky

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