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  • May 23, 2018 at 5:10 am #208923
    Inky
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    Hi Regi,

    I would leave her alone, and let her make the first (and last!) moves.

    If you do want to say anything, you should flip the script and tell HER, “I would love to be in a relationship with you. Tell me when you’re starting treatment for your depression and we’ll see what happens”. Yes, it can come across as mildly patronizing, but it will jog her out of her passiveness. Her, “Oh, I’m going to blow Regi off about the camping trip because: depression!”

    She doesn’t get to make all the decisions. You get to have boundaries too.

    Good Luck!

    Inky

    May 23, 2018 at 7:47 am #208937
    Kumar
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    Dear Regi,

    It is very important how stable you are? If you know how to manage your mind and emotion, be stable whatever her reaction, positive/negative, then you can approach her 1 more time, last one. Keep the approach kind and clean, very important. If she don’t or give negative response then stay away from her. Don’t disturb her.

    If you are not stable, will be pulled down by her negative response then better don’t try anymore. Not good for both of you.

    May 23, 2018 at 9:06 am #208953
    Gmann
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    Hey Regi,  It sounds like you got this pretty down pat. I have been now in two different women who were depressed and it went bad. So I don’t close anything off because there have been so many good times as well and I know people handle things differently.   The common  link for me is the ” come here I have got to have, worship , adore, endless love. followed by a behavior that says, go away. My life is to busy,  to be a yo yo  .

    May 24, 2018 at 11:24 pm #209297
    Regi
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    Thank you for your answers, you all made a good point. At the moment I’m high on life, so I wouldn’t be very dissapointed when she blows me off, I have nothing to lose. I don’t expect anything from her because I know she’s unstable. I might just let things happen and see what it brings us. Maybe this camping trip will change everything, but probably she will change her mind and stay home. We’ll see 🙂 Thanks guys!

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