Inky,

Yeah people really made me feel horrible about it. They’d act like it was the worst thing I could have done to her and my friendship. If dating a friend’s brother really isn’t that bad, then I just assume the reason why everyone looked down upon me for it is because she went around telling people how horrible it was. She must’ve told everyone she thought it was so weird and wrong. Even though, she never said anything about it to me. And in the end, she ended up breaking up with my ex because she realized she didn’t even like him. So it’s not like she dated my ex because she REALLY couldn’t stay away from him and she really liked him (which I would have understood) but she didn’t even like him that much. So it just proves even more she clearly never liked me or cared for me that much as a friend. Again, I wasn’t even upset or angry about it, I just got the message about how she viewed our friendship.

And you’re right about how it is weird for a guy in college to be dating a girl in high school. We ended up breaking up for a little after he went off to college (this story was 2 years ago, I’m a senior in high school now while he’s a sophomore in college), but we got back together a little after. I’m just relieved to hear that I am not the horrible person everyone made me out to be and that it’s not wrong for me to dislike his sister because I really dislike the things she has said about me and I don’t trust her at all.