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  • January 3, 2018 at 4:31 am #184813
    Inky
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    Hi cnashh,

    You were not **married** to any of your previous boyfriends. Sometimes we have to go after what our heart truly wants, even if it does mean hurting other people.

    I wish you bravery. Bravery to contact Justin, to see where he stands and yes, even to make the first move.

    Good Luck!

    Inky

    January 3, 2018 at 6:09 am #184835
    Eliana
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    Hi Cnashh,

    I think if you really like this guy you say you do, then don’t accept any more dates, or have boyfriends for awhile. Let Justin see you single and alone for awhile. Right now, he feels you are playing “hard to get” and “games” by always being with someone yet always accepting other dates with men, and men grow tired of that fast. If you don’t get out of this “on and off dating” quickly I am afraid there will be no hope with Justin. So no more games, be single..show him you can be happy and single. Then ask him out. He is not going to make the first move again, if ever, because like he said, you are always with someone. Also, it does not look good to men or see you as “girlfriend” material when you are constantly breaking up with men all the time, so no more head games, drama.,cut to the chase, he likes you, you like him, this may be your last chance, stay single and then ask him out before he completely loses interest. x

    January 3, 2018 at 8:57 am #184871
    Anonymous
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    Dear cnashh:

    You asked: “Where did I go wrong?”

    My answer:

    1. You  lied to Justin: “I told him..I thought he had a girlfriend (I was lying)… I was making excuses saying ‘Steven approached me….”

    2. You dishonestly manipulated Justin, telling him these two things:”I cant go out with you… not to give up hope too fast, you never know what will happen in the future! which was so foul of me”

    3. Telling Justin you liked him and then dating Steven (You shared that he asked you, understandably: “Why did you go out with Steven and then you told me you liked me?”

    4. Agreeing to date and have a relationship with man after man because they want to, while  rejecting, lying to and dishonestly manipulating the man you do want.

    anita

     

    January 7, 2018 at 8:44 am #185403
    whiskers
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    Eh, is this the guy you are talking about?

    Why Did She Reject Me, But Still Tries To Get Me To Chase Her?

    All the details are the same, including, stopping him from hugging a girl, sleeping with his friend, telling him you are with someone but to wait for you, friending his Jamaican/Cuban friend on facebook ect. Story is even written in the same order.

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