My boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago. Within those months I slept with another guy. Now my ex and I are talking again and we have both worked on getting ourselves better. I believe we have fixed the problems that caused the break up and I also told him about the other guy. My ex and I were each other’s first and now I am feeling guilty because I always wanted us to be each other’s only sex partner. How do I deal with this feeling of regret?
Maybe the same way you dealt with other regrets in your life; maybe in a different ways.
Think, if you will, of another regret you had in the past, a big regret perhaps. If you’d like to share: what was that regret and how did you deal with it?
I think you have to forgive yourself. At the time, as far as you knew, you might never have gotten back together with your BF. So your sex life continued, even though your relationship had not. The silver lining of this is your BF will never take your for granted as he knows you do have the capacity to move on.
Best,
Inky
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