I don't feel as close as I used to with my boyfriend.

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June 30, 2017 at 6:17 am #155766

Inky
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Hi Liz,

It’s long distance. You have school. You have work. He broke up with you two times. He’s confusing his “morals” (control) with your “morals”.

Tell him you need a break. Then revisit him (maybe) next year.

Wear makeup.

Go crazy.

Inky

June 30, 2017 at 8:21 am #155784

Rox
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Hi Liz,

When I was in highschool, I wish someone would have given me great advice about boys. So I will tell you what I wish that someone would have told me.

1. Never ever choose a boy over your school. Always prioritize your school and aim to have an amazing profession that is for most and the most important thing that you can do for yourself.

2. Don’t ever, ever, put a boys “needs/wants” before your own. Don’t do it! Build your self up- make yourself stronger! Don’t be stubborn

3. I know this is hard, but say good bye to him- You guys are both to young to be dealing with this type of issues.

4. Focus on you and the right man will come along at the right time.

5. Please just focus on school.

Looking back at my life, I wish that I would of focused soooo much more on school instead of boys. Boys come and go, but what you build with your future= that is amazing=that is what will open doors up for you.

Please let this relationship go!

Rox

June 30, 2017 at 12:41 pm #155858

Liz
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Hey guys, I just want to say thank you so much. I never would expect a reply this quickly so this is really great. I did very well in school last year(A’s,,, mostly and 2 B’s and that’s better than I’ve ever done) so I was really fine. I guess I should have made it clear but I assume since I was freaking out last night over it, I wasn’t thinking correctly. It’s currently summer so no school to worry about currently. I’m going to take a distant break from him now. If he doesn’t like me putting myself first then we’re done. I’ll never let a boy get in the way of my success and if my boyfriend isn’t my biggest cheerleader like I believe a partner should be, then it’s done. If he can’t respect my wishes and let me do what makes me happy then I can’t pretend I’m happy with him. I’m going to wear makeup and spend money on it and if he hates it then that sucks. If he loves me for me then he’s going to support me. His mom bought a plane ticket to visit him in August that’s $200 so if I’m still happy by then, I’ll go. But if I feel sad at night when we’re away still, then I won’t go. I can’t suffer for a month only to force myself to go somewhere I’m not happy. I’ll do as I please and if he doesn’t like it then I don’t like him.

June 30, 2017 at 12:57 pm #155860
Inky
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Way to go, Liz!!! 🙂
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June 30, 2017 at 8:04 pm #155892

Macy
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Liz

You are an an amazing young lady…be proud of that!!! Your needs are a priority ..you only have 1 life!!

I think your time is school first, sports, girl friends than boys.

o not ever let a man tell you, you can’t wear makeup…if you cake it on, we’ll that’s not attractive, but otherwise it beautifies a woman’s features…besides it would be like saying a man is a man he doesn’t need deodorant. ..heck that would knock half of us out if we had to smell a man without deodorant.
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