Hi mulza,
The hardest part (for me) after a breakup was when they’d call you to see how you “are”.
Just when you’re dealing with reality and coming to terms with it, “they” call. Maddening!
They do not call to see how you “are”. They call to assuage their own guilt.
Please leave this guy alone for at least a year ~ for his sake. Then maybe, just maybe, have a regular conversation with him.
If you miss the sound of his voice, imagine how he feels. Sorry so harsh!
Best,
Inky