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  • October 11, 2024 at 10:51 am #438676
    anita
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    Dear CutieJ:

    You are welcome. Your 9-days visit with her has ended, I am glad you made it home safely.

    Beginning of visit: “I came to her place today. She picked me up at the airport” (Oct 2),

    Ending of visit: “I worked late at the company to distract myself, and got on the bus to go back home. It was long and scary rides, as I’ve never been on a bus in this city or at this time. After I got off the bus, I ran between cars and bushes to walk back home” (Oct 11).

    You arrived to her place, her city by plane and returned to your place, your city by bus? Was it a very long bus ride?

    Did the two of you break up, or are you still in a relationship?

    anita

    October 11, 2024 at 7:57 pm #438682
    Anonymous
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    Hi CutieJ

    Well done on controlling your emotions and behaviour despite another lie. You are right, she has treat you terribly. It is awful to leave someone waiting outside of a house with no place to go. You would not have succeeded if not for your willingness to reflect on your own mistakes and improve. You were aware of the situation, you were aware of your difficulties and you were able to prepare and successfully managed your emotions and behaviour.

    There was mutual abuse in this relationship. You didn’t deserve to be abused by her, nor she you. Your childhood is the reason you stayed in this unhealthy relationship, it is the reason you have difficulty managing your emotions and behaviour. You need to get to the point where when someone treats you badly you can leave.

    Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏

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