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  • April 7, 2016 at 4:38 am #101147
    Inky
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    Hi soopy,

    You are very young. As you get older, you will be more able to say “No”, more able to discern BS, and less likely to feel anything for this character. Why do you think he chose you? Because of your youthful optimism and forgiving nature! He himself is very young to have two (ex) wives and children. Meaning you were to be the next victim!! And then he would treat you the same way.

    What I would do is immediately date other guys, preferably closer to your age. Don’t answer the door when he calls. (How entitled of him! “She’s not doing anything, I’ll just drop by!”) Do you have room mates? Get some, let them know what’s going on. He also can’t get you alone to “talk” if you are never alone!

    Your time and attention are his “Food”. You must starve him of his source (you). Trust me, he will then go on to his next target.

    Is it possible for you to quietly and quickly move as well as deleting your number? I know it’s not fair, but he knows how to soften you. I don’t want you to be his third baby momma!

    Be Strong,

    Inky

    • This reply was modified 9 years ago by Inky.
    • This reply was modified 9 years ago by Inky.
    April 7, 2016 at 6:04 am #101160
    Anonymous
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    Dear soopy:

    You read as a logical, sensible woman who is aware of what is going on. But there is more awareness needed.

    You wrote: “somewhere in his twisted mind there is a soul there, and he puts a mature front but I know in his head he is a child.”

    (1) You are aware that there is an innocent child inside him and it is true. He was born an innocent child and that child is still in him. You get glimpses of that child in his eyes, in his voice, in his touch. Good awareness.

    (2) More awareness: every single person in the world was born an innocent child and that child is still in them. This is true to war criminals responsible for the deaths of thousands to millions of people. It is true to serial murderers who have committed the most cruel acts imaginable.

    If you meditate on 1 and 2, what are your thoughts and feelings?

    anita

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