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    Tom
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    Hi everyone. I’m Tom, a 41 year old father of four and husband to my best friend.

    I so want to be happy, but the more I try, the more it becomes apparent I can’t because I want it. Everything irritates me, but it always does because I want it too.

     

    I thought I moved beyond, I, but it was I tricking me into more I.

     

    The double edge sword to it all is a painful truth to this journey. How do you manage it?

    #224139
    Mark
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    Tom,

    How do you mange being irritated about “everything?”

    We are on a Buddhist focused site.  Start following the Buddhist practices, i.e. meditation, mindfulness and the philosophy of kindness.

    No quick and easy fixes but it’s a lifelong “fix.”

    Mark

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    miranam
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    Hi Tom,

    This state of yours, did it last for long time is it recent?

    There are two things which came to my mind when I read your post.

    Could it be exhaustion? Physical or mental. Lack of sleep? It can happen that our body sends us a signal of alarm saying “I cannot take it anymore”. Could also be a hormonal unbalance also which you cannot improve just with the power of spirit. On the other hand, according to many research, proper life hygiene can be very helpful: healthy regular eating, moderate exercise and enough sleep. If it doesn’t improve after these measures have been taken, I would discuss it with my family doctor.

    Another thing is more on the psychology side. I read an article describing the research findings that sometimes the so called positive psychology can give a bad result. In other words, when we force ourselves to feel good, it produces the opposite result. Maybe if you let yourself experience the negative emotions without fighting them, but without nurturing them either, they will have less power over you.

     

     

     

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