Hello everyone,

I have known this man for about three years and we always had chemistry and got along very well. We talked about dating for years but the timing was just never right.  We finally got our chance and started dating in August. It was great!  We had so much fun and opened up and truly enjoyed each other.  I was surprised when he immediately started talking about our future. I mentioned that I was surprised and that I thought we had agreed to take things slowly.  I just wasn’t ready yet. Here we are three weeks later. He has completely pulled away and will barely spend time with me.  We finally spoke last night and he said that I hurt him and that he decided he is better off single. It makes me sad because I really do like him, but he caught me off  guard. I did say that to him but he seemed genuinely hurt that I said we agreed to no Expectations.  Obviously there is more to it, but now I feel even worse knowing that my reaction cacaused this. I really wish I would have taken a moment to think about how I was saying what I was saying. But it’s too late. Is it too late for him and I?  I truly value our friendship, but I want more. If I’m being honest I don’t know if I’m ready for a serious relationship but I want more then a friendship.  Should I just let this go?  It doesn’t feel right. It doesn’t feel like that should be it. Three years of waiting for two months?  And we clearly still care for one another.  I wish I could rewind time, but I’m. It going to beg either.

Thank you for the support. : (