He wants an open relationship...

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April 12, 2018 at 8:22 am #201991

cece
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Is it crazy to say that I would actually allow my current love interest be in an open relationship, where I would be completely faithful to him but have knowledge of the fact that he is out getting intimate with other women? It terrifies me tremendously, but I do sincerely love him. I want to support his every choice but this one kind of has me stuck in this little rut.

If it helps any he is a Libra Male.

should I find another partner or allow my love for him to continue on?

April 12, 2018 at 9:04 am #201997

Anonymous
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Dear cece:

I don’t know how I missed your first thread, only a day ago. That thread was about a man who ignored you, so it couldn’t be the same guy this thread is about, correct?

Did he contact you in the last day or so and let you know that he wants an open relationship?

anita

April 12, 2018 at 1:22 pm #202097
Brandy
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Hi cece,

He wants you to be completely faithful to him but allow him to be sexually intimate with other women? Is that right? If so, then to answer your question, yes, I think this is crazy.

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April 12, 2018 at 1:35 pm #202101

Mark
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cece,

I believe that loving someone does not give them a blank check, a free pass to do whatever they want that contradicts your own core beliefs and values.

Mark

April 17, 2018 at 7:24 am #202803

cece
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yes it is the same person unfortunately.

April 17, 2018 at 8:59 am #202823

Anonymous
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Dear cece:

You asked: “should I find another partner or allow my love for him to continue on?”

Having read your other two threads, my answer is: neither, at this point. Definitely disengage from J, focus on school, on taking care of your daily responsibilities, do some safe socializing, but no relationships with men at this point.

In the future, another partner, not anytime soon.

anita
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