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Fiance dated my close friend when we were exes

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    Inky
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    Hi Bluesses,

    YOU tell everyone you’ve been together for almost a year!! One starred FB status update should do it. A new profile picture of you and him. Saying, “After the most romantic year ever, BF proposed!” You can then write that, yes, you two “kept it a secret until the time was right!”

    He will get pissed that you let the cat out of the bag. The “friend” will be hurt. His other friends either already know, or don’t care. On the dark flip side it IS possible he’s been lying to everyone. That the “friend” is really his other GF and the other friends actually think that.

    Time to regain your pride by letting the truth set you free.

    In future conversations say “us” and “we” a lot. Never show any schism between you in public. And don’t mention this to him again. If he rants and raves say, “Oh, don’t be silly” and let HIM deal with the fall out from the “friend”. Who will think that HE was cheating on HER with YOU!

    Obviously, I’m supposed to write “Call off your engagement” but if it’s in less than 100 days I know that won’t happen, thus the throw back advice above!!

    This was a classic “Don’t pee on my leg and tell me it’s raining” situation.

    Blessings,

    Inky

    #77093
    Anonymous
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    Dear Bluesses:
    Can you re-tell your story in a way that will be much simpler for me to follow? Many give way less details? Just tell the bare minimum; condense the number of details to what really matters, make it short, summarize? This is an honest request on my part. I read your post and i was not able to follow. It may be a good exercise for you to re-write this???
    anita

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