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  • October 27, 2025 at 6:02 pm #451292
    anita
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    Yes, I would cancel the trip if I was you because she’s been ignoring you lately AND she’s about to spend time with another guy in Montreal. My hope for romance between you and her has expired tonight 🙁

    “Oh you know me.”, meaning..?

    October 27, 2025 at 6:10 pm #451293
    me
    Participant

    Meaning I’m always looking.

    Expired tonight? It expired when I did not take
    My shot with her when she was telling me to come home with her and when she wanted to see me soon. That’s when it ended, I pretty much knew we would never see eachother again.

    October 27, 2025 at 6:26 pm #451294
    anita
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    Oh, yes, always looking but never committed, as in one foot in, one foot out, hedging your bets (trying to avoid risk by not choosing fully), the push-pull thing I mentioned before.

    All this is as far as I know. I may be wrong..?

    Yes, you didn’t take your shot with her, so she gave up on you and became available for someone willing to travel across the country to see her. Right?

    October 27, 2025 at 6:38 pm #451295
    me
    Participant

    Idk, they have hung out before but she’s hung out with a bunch of guys. They might just hang out as friends for all I know. I dunno if he’s will stay all week.

    October 27, 2025 at 6:48 pm #451296
    anita
    Participant

    Dear me:

    Well, they may be hanging out as friends. I wonder if he’ll text you while there, or share stories on Instagram or whatnot.

    ..But if she is looking to immigrate to Canada, marrying a Canadian citizen would be an attraction for her.. So, she may be interested in being more than friends..?

    October 27, 2025 at 7:06 pm #451297
    me
    Participant

    Well I don’t wanna get married or have kids so it won’t be with me.

    October 27, 2025 at 7:20 pm #451298
    anita
    Participant

    Free Spirit me (meaning you.. me). I like you just the way you are, just the way I got to know you over the years- the bee’s knees! 🙂

    October 27, 2025 at 8:13 pm #451299
    me
    Participant

    Hmm starting to think back when she asked me about my rest, maybe she didn’t ask to look at my schedule and more how I am doing mentally?

    Thanks I like you too.

    October 27, 2025 at 8:31 pm #451300
    anita
    Participant

    Dear me:

    I don’t know.. No doubt she really liked you, maybe still likes you.. but got double messages from you (the pull-push thing).

    Oh.. You like me too, this is precious.. Mother/ son like. I like that!

    🌿 Anita

    October 27, 2025 at 8:58 pm #451301
    anita
    Participant

    .. It’s not just that she got double messages from you, it’s that she got messages from other coworkers, including the one flying 3-hours to see her. It’d be interesting, if nothing else, to see what happens next.. if anything of significance happens at all..

    October 28, 2025 at 11:24 am #451316
    me
    Participant

    Maybe I should stop caring about this. Lots of things I don’t even know and it’s not like I’ll be in a relationship with her ever. Just go to Taiwan for a month and whatever happens happens, it’s not like we are even dating and I doubt anything happens between the 2 of them, he just said it was ok when they hung out before. The guy I’m going to Thailand would tell me to not even care about any of that, go out and have fun. That’s all he does, he’s been everywhere and knows a lot of people, basically he’s a guy that loves life and everything and has no problem with girls. He was confused why I kicked the last girl out of my life and knows the whole story. I also wasn’t man enough to take this girl up on her offer of going home with her, most likely to her house if you know what I mean. Also with her message hoping to see me soon, thought me meaning everyone but it was just me. Coulda stepped up. Maybe Taiwan is my chance.

    October 28, 2025 at 11:41 am #451319
    anita
    Participant

    Dear me:

    I am confused (and maybe you too are confused..?):

    “it’s not like I’ll be in a relationship with her ever.. Maybe Taiwan is my chance.”- your chance for..?

    “I also wasn’t man enough to take this girl up on her offer of going home with her, most likely to her house if you know what I mean.”- I know what you mean lol. What do you mean “wasn’t man enough”..?

    Anita

    October 28, 2025 at 11:48 am #451322
    me
    Participant

    Chance to do something more for the month.

    Not man enough as in didn’t take the lead and took her up on the offer. But instead sat back and played it off as a joke.

    October 28, 2025 at 11:57 am #451323
    anita
    Participant

    I think it’s you wanting something but afraid of it at the same time. I think that the something is Intimacy, Closeness..

    October 29, 2025 at 9:47 am #451352
    me
    Participant

    Like I said, I didn’t know everything. Guys visiting family in Ontario so he will only see her for 1 day.

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