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  • October 23, 2025 at 7:27 pm #451195
    anita
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    I suppose, me. A neutral one, why not? You are aware of everything, you have clarity.

    October 23, 2025 at 8:28 pm #451197
    me
    Participant

    Yeah but I’m struggling with the indirectness.

    Direct? No, backs off
    Open? No, backs off
    Playful? Welcomes it

    Ah well. Once we see eachother it’ll be back to chasing her around and arms linked and stuff. She was direct on her last day, because she knew it was her last shot at me.

    October 23, 2025 at 8:36 pm #451198
    anita
    Participant

    Not focused, will get back to you Fri morning..

    October 24, 2025 at 11:02 am #451220
    anita
    Participant

    Dear me:

    I’m not absolutely sure that I understand: “Direct? No, backs off. Open? No, backs off. Playful? Welcomes it”- you mean that you were direct and open with her, and when you were, she backed off, and the only times she didn’t back off was when you were playful..?

    Seems like she has a commitment problem perhaps or she’s uncomfortable with real intimacy..?

    Not that I think that you’re interested in analyzing her 😊

    🤍🌿 Anita

    October 24, 2025 at 11:28 am #451221
    me
    Participant

    Yeah she backs off.

    October 24, 2025 at 11:52 am #451223
    anita
    Participant

    I didn’t know that.. now I do. I thought that you were the backing off guy (the push and pull I referred to earlier) and that she was the ..pull-only person, meaning that she wasn’t doing the pushing/ backing off part.

    maybe you both do the push-pull thing.. at different times?

    October 24, 2025 at 12:08 pm #451224
    me
    Participant

    Yeah the distance is annoying me right now. Relying on texts only, I don’t like texting, I like seeing.

    October 24, 2025 at 12:26 pm #451225
    anita
    Participant

    You really do like her.. and I still think that she likes you. I wish the physical distance didn’t exist for you right now.

    About to leave for the rest of the day (raining cats and dogs here)

    October 24, 2025 at 12:44 pm #451226
    me
    Participant

    Ok see ya later!

    Yeah I like her, but I wish I didn’t anymore. I don’t wanna keep thinking of someone about to be so far away I can’t see.

    October 24, 2025 at 8:04 pm #451228
    anita
    Participant

    Feelings.. The song “Feelings” come to mind:

    “Feelings
    Nothing more than feelings
    Trying to forget my feelings of love

    Teardrops
    Rolling down on my face
    Trying to forget my feelings of love…”

    Is that how you feel.. a bit?

    October 27, 2025 at 5:02 pm #451286
    me
    Participant

    She has been ignoring me lately so I’m taking a break from social media. One of the guys at work that’s spreading things about me is going to see her before she leaves, they are going on a date.

    October 27, 2025 at 5:24 pm #451288
    anita
    Participant

    Dear me:

    I am sorry, that probably stings, does it?

    The guy from work is flying 3 hours to see her on a date???

    October 27, 2025 at 5:40 pm #451289
    me
    Participant

    Yeah he will probably spend all week there. Why would he only go there to see her for a day or 2? They have hung out before for a day, but apparently she has hung out with lots of guy co workers. Doesn’t mean they will get intimate with her moving, could be just “friends”.

    October 27, 2025 at 5:50 pm #451290
    anita
    Participant

    Still, “friends” or not, it hurts a bit, I imagine.. Maybe you can find a local gal that you will like and who would like you back.. locally..?

    October 27, 2025 at 5:54 pm #451291
    me
    Participant

    Oh you know me.

    I’ll probably cancel my Taiwan trip though.

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