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  • #451019
    anita
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    I don’t know, me. I wish you and her had a direct line of honest, straightforward communication..

    #451020
    me
    Participant

    She’s too far away. Personally I don’t care if she did hang out with a bunch of dudes and have a bitchy attitude, it’s all hearsay and all that matters is how she acts towards me, which is the total opposite. Maybe she was just not into them the way they wanted her to? Who knows. I mean I did tell her I was just playing with her and knew wee wont see eachother ever again but she said nooooo and that there are ways we can see each other still and even if I dont see her where she is she will come to me and if she was rich things would be easy. Taiwanian girls throw all the hints at you and expect the guy to make the first move. I mean I already did tell her I liked her, and it was in for 30 hrs but it was not a “read” message, she likely saw it on the notifications.

    Btw I don’t just sit and wait for her, I talk to other women too. I need to see and speak to them, just a must for me. I’ll still try and see this girl and have some intense short times with her but that’s all it will be. Like a month long “thing”, until the next time.

    #451021
    anita
    Participant

    “Taiwanian girls”- think of her outside the box of a Taiwanese girl.. just a girl who happens to like a boy (you)?

    Maybe?

    #451022
    me
    Participant

    Still unclear if she likes me or not, no official “I like you”.

    #451035
    anita
    Participant

    Dear me:

    “I mean I did tell her I was just playing with her and knew we wont see each other ever again but she said nooooo and that there are ways we can see each other still and even if I don’t see her where she is she will come to me and if she was rich things would be easy… Still unclear if she likes me or not”-

    Me, it’s right above, in this quote: clearly she liked you when she said the above. Also clear that you pushed her away (telling her that you were just playing with her, that you’ll never see each other again)

    You then wrote: “I mean I already did tell her I liked her, and it was in for 30 hrs but it was not a ‘read’ message”- did you send her this message after you told her that you were only playing with her.. what did you actually say to her in that message?

    🤍🌿 Anita

    #451049
    me
    Participant

    Only pushed her away because she’s leaving and I doubted at the time we would see eachother.

    I said that I liked her more then I should considering we will be a million miles apart. Waited 30 hrs and deleted it as it did not say “read” but notifications pop up.

    #451052
    anita
    Participant

    Maybe she is confused. Maybe she is hurt. Maybe she hoped that you would give her a clear message?

    #451054
    me
    Participant

    I dunno but using AI chat bots to also help decode things tells me she’s really into me. I’m used to western things, hearing things like “come home with me” a few times on her last day and her I miss you text and the one about hoping to see me again confuses me as a westerner when talking about how a Taiwanese culture is. Not even close to the same. She’s about her culture as she gave everyone cookies as a gift on her last day with hand written notes (which is a normal thing).

    Also I told her I liked her before I said I was joking and I know we will never see eachother again.

    #451055
    anita
    Participant

    “I know we will never see each other again.”- why this certainty.. I don’t understand..?

    #451056
    me
    Participant

    I figured it was just going to be just text based, she was talking about visiting other places and we were just “friends”, plus no money and no passport and how lazy I am. Plus why would she wanna see me again? If you want fun times then sure.

    #451057
    anita
    Participant

    “and how lazy I am”- meaning.. ?

    “Plus why would she wanna see me again? If you want fun times then sure.”- There’s more to you than just “fun times”. I know, because I’ve been talking with you for years. There’s a lot more to you than a performance for the pleasure of others.

    There’s.. (take it from here, if you will)

    #451064
    me
    Participant

    Just means I am lazy.

    Anyway she messaged me, she’s still here and she’s still here until early November, wants me to travel to her but let her know I’m working all the time so I can get the money to travel.

    #451065
    anita
    Participant

    “She’s still here”- I didn’t know. I thought she’s in Asia. So, she’s still in Canada?

    “wants me to travel to her”- how far is she from you?

    #451066
    me
    Participant

    She’s still in Montreal, we been texting for a good 4 hours about ourselves and was being direct. Said she gets lonely, let her know she can talk to me and about traveling together when I see her and when she comes back here.

    #451068
    anita
    Participant

    I think you’re on the west side, 3 hours from Montreal? Why can’t you, or won’t you meet her at Montreal?

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