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  • #452591
    me
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    I got other girls to worry about. Ones I can see and touch, this one is too far away as I keep saying. I should ask the co worker out and kinda fizzle out on this one. If I hit it off with the co worker I’ll likely drop this far away one.

    #452592
    anita
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    The new Co-worker.. a new thread in the making?

    If you could get what you want in a woman, what would it be? A short term thrill, a distraction from the same-old, same-old, day-in, day-out living, or something totally new..?

    #452593
    me
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    Naw no new threads for a while.

    #452594
    me
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    As for the other part…beats me. I don’t even know what I want.

    #452595
    anita
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    I’m here, Me, old thread or new thread 😊

    #452598
    anita
    Participant

    I posted the above before reading your latest post… So, what is it that you want, best you know? (going to bed now, 9:49 pm)

    #452670
    me
    Participant

    I have no clue what I want, even asked ChatGPT I dunno what I want.

    Btw I messaged her that I noticed the texting dried up since the phone call, she laughed and said because job interviews she’s busy with.

    #452672
    anita
    Participant

    Ha, ha Me.. just good to read back from you, no matter what she says.. She has jobs interviews back in Taiwan..?

    #452673
    me
    Participant

    Yup that be what she has but wants nature pictures so sending her those tomorrow. She’s excited to get them.

    #452684
    anita
    Participant

    I suppose the thread is ongoing, Feelings for coworker.. who likes nature pictures and.. you!

    #452685
    me
    Participant

    Don’t see a point, it’ll just keep going on and on. I did see the other co worker though, we kinda like delayed time just to talk together, this time I took a water break to be around her lmao. I guess I should just retire this thread until next time I start a thread. There really is no point in updating things.

    #452686
    anita
    Participant

    Dear me: Well, I am looking forward to you starting a new thread. I can see what you mean by you not seeing a point. You need a strong, reliable woman, one you can depend on and not having to guess about.. is my understanding.

    🤍 Anita 

    #452710
    me
    Participant

    1 last thing before I go…that other young girl I mentioned? We purposely went out of our way to basically “hang” around eachother at work, she knows I purposely go up front to talk to her (told her straight up), mentioned for like the 4th time about some work movie even though we are both working and can’t see it. But she’s been going to another room when I’m in the break room, yesterday she was in another room and I purposely sat in that room when my shift ended just to talk and she called me fun and stayed an extra 10 minutes after her break to talk to me, today got in trouble because she stayed longer to eat, we talked again. I think I should stop pursuing her though…co worker and all and she looks good and we got a bunch in common. But I think I’m more “friend”, I don’t want another female “friend”. Just looking for your opinion on it? The guys at work are knowing something’s up between us.

    #452713
    anita
    Participant

    Dear me: I didn’t notice your message until just now.. and am not focused enough to give you my opinion. I’ll get back to you first thing Mon morning, please add any more information that can help me understand better before I’m back to you in the morning.

    🤍 Anita

    #452724
    anita
    Participant

    Dear me:

    I can see that you’re really drawn to her and that you enjoy talking with her. Looks like she sometimes gives you positive signals (like staying longer to chat), but other times she pulls back (like leaving the break room). That mix can be confusing.

    Since she’s a coworker, it’s worth being careful — workplace relationships can get complicated fast.

    If you feel she only sees you as a friend and you don’t want another friendship, it might be healthier to step back before you get more invested. If she truly wants more, she’ll make that clear in her own way. In the meantime, you can enjoy the connection without any expectations.

    What do you think, me?

    🤍 Anita

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