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  • November 28, 2025 at 10:27 am #452328
    anita
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    I know that WhatsApp allows for free international calling.. no charge. Is it something that’s available for you and her?

    November 28, 2025 at 10:53 am #452331
    me
    Participant

    I dunno if she even likes talking, she may just be down to try it once. Will only talk to her a few minutes I told her to see if she gets charged or not. But I guess if she agreed to talk to me she must somewhat like talking on the phone or she’d say no or ignore me like that voice text I left her.

    November 28, 2025 at 12:01 pm #452337
    anita
    Participant

    Dear me: Well, I am curious how the phone conversation will feel like, for you. I hope it’d be a pleasant experience..

    November 28, 2025 at 1:39 pm #452340
    me
    Participant

    Well I’m sure it will be fine, talked to several girls on the phone just fine, 2 were much much older then me by a few decades lmao. The. Of course the ex friend.

    November 28, 2025 at 9:16 pm #452343
    anita
    Participant

    By a few decades..??? That’s elderly women, isn’t it?

    November 28, 2025 at 10:04 pm #452345
    me
    Participant

    Yeah a few in their early 60s gave me their numbers, 1 of them wants me in her bed she told me lol. But of course I’m always ridiculed at work by some guys that don’t even interact with women thinking they know what those women want and that’s to not be into me. Like bruh…you don’t even TALK to women, you just always seem to have the same opinion every time, then spread fake rumors about me. Only a few are like this, the rest are fine.

    I don’t get out much but went to a co workers bday party, he said it was the best day of his life. I only had 1 drink but was told I was loud, I guess like at my work. Despite how I sound in these threads, I’m the total opposite IRL.

    November 28, 2025 at 10:28 pm #452346
    anita
    Participant

    Not focused now, will try to understand what you said in the morning and get back to you, me 🙂

    November 29, 2025 at 9:17 am #452356
    anita
    Participant

    Dear me:

    I think that your most recent post is an opportunity to get to know you better. (I don’t know though if you want to be known better though 🙂.

    In case you don’t mind: so, some guys at work think that women who are into you are NOT into you? What kinds of fake rumors do they spread about you?

    “Despite how I sound in these threads, I’m the total opposite IRL.”- I am so curious to know more about “the total opposite IRL”..???

    🤍 Anita

    November 29, 2025 at 10:32 am #452357
    me
    Participant

    Sure.

    I think they are just mad I’m really social. They spread to people I wanna have sex with every girl that talks to me, confuses the hell out of me because I’m not that way at all.

    I think I sound pathetic in the threads, I try not re reading them…

    Gonna try getting the co workers number to text her, keeps taking a break with me even for a few minutes for some water for a couple minutes or more, we talk a lot and have a lot in common. But early 20s I believe, so maybe too young.

    November 29, 2025 at 11:10 am #452359
    anita
    Participant

    Dear me:

    Sincerely, I never thought of you as pathetic, not for a single moment, not in regard to how you come across in your threads, and not otherwise!

    “They spread to people I wanna have sex with every girl that talks to me, confuses the hell out of me because I’m not that way at all.”- it may be how THEY are and their projecting their thoughts, their motivations into you.

    Early 20s may be too young.. but she may be more mature or mentally healthier than a 40-year-old. I wouldn’t know..?

    🤍 Anita

    November 29, 2025 at 2:11 pm #452361
    me
    Participant

    Thanks, I appreciate that! Just how I feel reading it.

    I think so too about them, why else they always shoot me down.

    Yeah too young, but rumors about me and her are popping up hanging out together at work (true, spent half my break with her when she was getting water lol) and outside (a lie…for now muahaha). Told her I had a new number and it was a weird one, she asked me what my number was so showed her, then after words smacked myself why I didn’t say “I’ll text it to you, what’s your number”.

    November 29, 2025 at 8:38 pm #452369
    anita
    Participant

    You are welcome, me.

    I am sorry they always shoot you down 🙁. Is there something you can tell them to make them stop?

    “why I didn’t say ‘I’ll text it to you, what’s your number'”.. you tell me why, me ..?

    🤍 Anita

    November 29, 2025 at 11:57 pm #452373
    me
    Participant

    Well that sucks, no phone call today.

    Ignore them.

    Missed my shot again LOL!!!

    November 30, 2025 at 8:33 am #452382
    me
    Participant

    Yes!! We talked for 20 minutes!

    November 30, 2025 at 9:21 am #452383
    anita
    Participant

    Congratulations, me! How was it, the call? Did you talk about when you’d talk next?

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