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November 4, 2025 at 10:14 am #451510
meParticipantYeah I’m alright, sad my phone deleted the picture of her texting me she’s starting to miss me and is sad but happy she met me and hopes to see me soon. It was such a nice thing to read sometimes.
Was out with work yesterday, naturally everyone gravitates towards me.
As for the girl, she’s still got a few days left here but I’m still on my social media break for a few more weeks. Hope she’s doing well, we will talk when I’m off my break. Kinda missing those work memories we had.
November 4, 2025 at 10:57 am #451512
anitaParticipantA day reading from you is a good day, me 😊
Of course people naturally gravitate toward you!
Two more days and she’s flying to Taiwan, huh? She might text you before and after her flight?
November 4, 2025 at 11:27 am #451514
meParticipantWho knows, I’ll check back in a few weeks.
November 4, 2025 at 11:49 am #451517
anitaParticipantThis is me being cool about things 🧊 😎 🆒
😊 Anita
November 6, 2025 at 7:01 pm #451616
meParticipantMajor shit happening to me right now, I really wanna see my dad again soon.
I went on instagram to make sure it’s still working, she’s down to see me in Thailand saying she will have to start saving up and hopes I put instagram back on.
I’m REALLY depressed, like REALLY.
November 6, 2025 at 7:17 pm #451617
anitaParticipantWait, wait.. me, what is depressing you so right now? Tell me..?
November 6, 2025 at 7:44 pm #451620
anitaParticipantTell me, me: you feel pressured to be there for her in Thailand? You don’t have to, you know. Not your responsibility to be where she wants you to be. You’re your own man, your own person..
November 6, 2025 at 8:10 pm #451623
anitaParticipantMe, talk to me. I’m just about going to bed, only 8:10 pm (your time as well), so dark, so just about heavy-duty, rainy, dark winter. Will be back to you Fri morning.
November 6, 2025 at 8:50 pm #451626
meParticipantIt’s personal but driving me mad.
Naw I’m not pressured by her, I invited her if she wants.
November 7, 2025 at 7:55 am #451637
anitaParticipantDear Me:
Oh, it’s the other thing you mentioned. I just came across a quote that may help, it’s by Marcus Aurelius (Roman Emperor):
“You have power over your mind—not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.”
Marcus Aurelius was a devoted Stoic, a school of philosophy that teaches:
* Control what you can, accept what you can’t
* Live according to reason and virtue
* Cultivate inner peace regardless of external chaos.
Other quotes by him: “If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it—and this you have the power to revoke.”
“When you arise in the morning, think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive—to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love.”
“The best revenge is to be unlike him who performed the injury.”
“Do not act as if you were going to live ten thousand years. Death hangs over you. While you live, while it is in your power, be good.”
“The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.”
How are you feeling this Friday, me?
🤍 Anita
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