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Feeling selfish for things that aren't selfish? What do I do?

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    Anonymous
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    Dear llana:

    When did this start? What is the earliest memory of thinking and feeling this way??? When, where did it start?
    anita

    #90297
    who
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    To: llana

    I to have a few questions to ask you, just for clarification.

    1) When you are buying snacks, food, getting dolled up, and buying clothes, with your peers, are they of the less fortunate?
    Meaning your peers?

    2) And when in school, are you going beyond your way because you are smart and want good grades?
    Or are you doing so, in order to stand out, bragging rights? etc.

    To me I don’t think anything is wrong with you for spending money or keeping up with yourself! There’s nothing wrong with having money or being wealthy if you are truly humble about it.
    And going the extra mile in school is great! you are doing your best in order to achieve what you want out of life!

    words for thought: maybe to not feel the way you do meaning (selfish) how about helping someone out, maybe a peer in class not doing so good in a subject. Or giving back to the lesser of people who don’t have much! Maybe some charity work for a cause that you have interest in.. Around this time of the year, there are many charity events and things going on. look online.

    But I really feel that maybe you feel this way (selfish) because you do have a gentle heart! and maybe it’s telling you something.
    Hope all is well.
    THANKS FOR YOUR POSTING! and hope to hear from you soon..peace!

    • This reply was modified 9 years, 4 months ago by who.
    • This reply was modified 9 years, 4 months ago by who.
    #90300
    who
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    Oh! one last thing, Or maybe you feel this way because in your past you could of been all about self. And now you feel guilty about doing normal things! (your conscious).
    I don’t know, but hope any of this helps!

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