Dear Jennifer:

Welcome back.

I was wondering what you were referring to by the  “Familiar mental chatter”  in the title  of your thread.

This man that you were seeing “pulled away completely.. so severely”- but if you are still communicating with him (last line), in what way did he pull away?

anita

Hi Jennifer,

I wouldn’t chase him. You not texting, calling, asking questions, etc. will drive him nuts. He hates drama in relationships? Don’t give him any. When he calls to talk about your relationship say in a neutral tone that you didn’t know you were in one. Play it cool.

Stop doing all the emotional labor for him.

In short, let it be awkward.

Best,

Inky