Hi ryan,

If they’re your friends, what you’re asking won’t be that big a deal. It’s not like the ex friend is inviting himself over! Just say (in guy speak): “For the dude’s saftey, don’t bring him over here because I don’t tolerate azzes in my space! BTW, he’s an azz.”

If you do find him sitting there, lead him by the elbow to “show him something outside”. When he leaves the apartment, you stay in, and slam the door and lock it. Your friends will be all, “OMG, he’s serious!” and the toxic friend will be made a fool of and won’t visit anymore.

OK, Good Luck!

Inky

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