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  • April 13, 2018 at 12:07 pm #202247
    Anonymous
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    Dear May:

    You wrote: “I want to fix our relationship and our communication but I have no idea where to start”. My answer: start with a No-Aggression-Policy, no fighting, that is.

    No fighting.

    Can you do that, be assertive and not fight?

    anita

    April 13, 2018 at 12:33 pm #202263
    Mark
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    May,

    You labelled your post as “Dying Relationship.”  This is telling in how you think of what is going on.

    You want to fix your relationship and communication.  Does your boyfriend?  It is hard to do that if he does not think it is a problem or that he does not want to make it better.

    You two might want to check out Marshall Rosenburg’s Non-Violent Communication process.  It is a simple process which helps in communication.

    You might want to read what the Tiny Buddha website has to offer as well…

    Sounds True One

    Mark

    April 13, 2018 at 12:41 pm #202257
    Kathleen
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    May,

    It sounds like your boyfriend is not mature enough to give you the love and attention you deserve. He very well knows your feelings, but is choosing not to improve his own behavior, but instead turn the blame on you. This is unhealthy and toxic, and you could easily find someone who could give you that weekend happiness on a daily basis. It is time to move on, you deserve better.

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