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  • September 23, 2015 at 7:57 pm #83986
    TriangleSun
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    Your horoscopes didn’t align? Don’t you think this is strange? This reads like he and his family is a nut basket and you should be happy that you’re not a part of it. This guy also seems to be in a hurry to get married. Honestly, you should be happy that this clown didn’t workout. I’m sorry but the horoscope thing had me cracking up. I can’t believe some people…

    Don’t sweat it. Don’t date coworkers and like you just said yourself don’t have friendships with exs. 99% of the time it only lasts until one person either finds someone else or leaves because they’re hurting.

    September 23, 2015 at 8:36 pm #83987
    Pearl
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    Hey there!! I have heard something similar in the past 🙂 All I can say is – it hurts only if you love him more than yourself 🙂 🙂 You love yourself more than the need of the relationship or to keep him into your life! I have been there before, believe me – once you learn the lesson and empower yourself 🙂 you will attract only the best of people in your life 🙂 so take it from there and I would also suggest start doing something which you really enjoy doing! Dancing or painting 🙂 get back on track and finally be professional at work! You are there to make a career and tell yourself you deserve the best! Next time, don’t give too much 🙂 and don’t lose yourself in a relationship – this is what I learnt from my relationships that didn’t work! Hope this helps!!take care

    September 23, 2015 at 10:52 pm #83993
    jheel
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    Yes, the horoscope thing is really strange, I was even wondering if that was the real reason of the break up. But anyways, what’s the use of doing all this thinking when the guy himself doesn’t want you.. the real pain now is to see him and his new love everyday at work.

    September 24, 2015 at 4:50 am #84005
    Inky
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    Hi jheel,

    Are you guys Indian?? Then I can kind of see the astrology thing. But that seems so backwards. If you truly, TRULY believe in that, then the family should have hired a matchmaker who ONLY introduced “compatible” people to him, and he should never have dated anyone with that potential “dealbreaker” in the background. You can’t have it both ways with living as modern people AND sticking to traditions 100%.

    Listen, this frees you up to be with a modern man with a brain who’s not into doing everything his parents say.

    But on another note, yes, I was “friends” with an ex. I just conveniently never contacted him or gave him any new contact info!! LOL! He did track me down and we would communicate once a decade or so. Then he desperately wanted to FB Friend me. I eventually gave in. Wouldn’t you know it, now he’s getting married! Now he’s “Hidden” so I don’t see that nonsense at all!

    September 24, 2015 at 7:58 pm #84066
    jheel
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    Yes Inky, you are totally right, person cannot be modern and still follow 100% tradition even if it means disrespecting other person’s feelings.
    It’s as if following traditions justifies hurting another person.

    And yes, I remained friends with him,, thinking tthis will soften the blow of the break up. But it did much worse now that I need to see him everyday with another person.

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