Wow, you’re seeing more of him as a friend than I do with my actual friends! LOL

Can you be “busy” enough so that you only see him (as a friend) once a month?

Talk on the phone only once a week?

Text only once a day? (a one line text, no conversations)

As he feels lonely he will seek company. And as/if he misses you, he will start the conversation.

The trick on how to do this is to claim busy-ness and at the same time plan an outing with him a few weeks in advance. I think you need to do this for your own sanity!

• This reply was modified 10 years, 6 months ago by Inky.

Hey…You are going through a pool of emotions right now. Give yourself sometime, you can meet him and spend sometime out with him, make sure you dont get attached but instead just have a healthy chat and conversations with him. If he is the one you will get the clue. Don’t feel guilty or sad, he was your boyfriend before and you or he has done nothing wrong by breaking up so just go with the flow. Life will unfold at the right time. Till then if you feel happy with him be with him there is nothing wrong in that.