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  • March 12, 2018 at 8:37 pm #196965
    Mark
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    FFTOLA,

    Have you ever met this crush in person?  How old are you?

    What I would do in your position?  I would find someone that I can have a real, in person relationship.  I would go out and participate in real life rather than online like join clubs, find Meetup groups to do things with, enjoy things that you like and meet others who like the same.

    I see that a lot of us spend too much time obsessing about what other people are doing and what they are thinking of rather than going out enjoying life and people.  Look to make friends and the girlfriend will show up when you are out having a life of your own.

    Mark

    March 13, 2018 at 8:21 am #197041
    FFTOLA
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    Hi Mark,

     

    Thanks for your answer. We met in person and spend 1 year on the same campus. We lost contact as I move back to Europe for a while and reconnected kind of by accident 2 years ago. Social media was just a way to keep in touch since she lives on the East Coast. I’ve met a lot of girls recently and I’ve tried to focus on what I could potentially build with them but I just doesn’t feel complete.

     

    Therefore I chose to open up to her and got ghosted. Now that I have blocked her for 5 months I feel like she will never reach out and that is too late.

    March 13, 2018 at 9:15 am #197055
    Mark
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    FFTOLA,

    I would let go of that girl.  Keep her blocked and don’t check if your social media is being checked or not.  Move on.

    I’m not sure what you mean by “too late.”  It sounds like she never was that into you from how you described her behavior.

    Keep focusing on making your own life happier, not only through meeting other girls but just in general with hobbies, books, friends (male and female).

    What you said was telling, “I  just doesn’t feel complete.”  It is up to us to feel complete for ourselves.  We cannot depend on others to do that for us.  That is co-dependence.

    Mark

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